Hi, my boyfriend is 31 years old and it seems every time we have sex, he takes forever to orgasm, sometimes we just stop because it's been so long and I'm tired, so often, he doesn't orgasm at all. He says he is not sure why this is happening. He says it feels great, and he comes close to orgasm several times, but just can't seem to finish. The few times that he has orgasmed, there hasn't been much semen and it's very very thick, sometimes a yellowish/white. I'm worried about him and his health. He eats right and exercizes, and he says he doesn't masturbate much. He also says he has heard that when men orgasm too often, they get weak. Any truth to this, and can anyone shed light on this? I can't help feeling inadequate. I so want to know that he is feeling good when we make love.
Re: Boyfriend takes so long to climax, if it all...
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Originally Posted by JustMe29
Hi, my boyfriend is 31 years old and it seems every time we have sex, he takes forever to orgasm, sometimes we just stop because it's been so long and I'm tired, so often, he doesn't orgasm at all. He says he is not sure why this is happening. He says it feels great, and he comes close to orgasm several times, but just can't seem to finish. The few times that he has orgasmed, there hasn't been much semen and it's very very thick, sometimes a yellowish/white. I'm worried about him and his health. He eats right and exercizes, and he says he doesn't masturbate much. He also says he has heard that when men orgasm too often, they get weak. Any truth to this, and can anyone shed light on this? I can't help feeling inadequate. I so want to know that he is feeling good when we make love.
To address your problems,naturally yellow sperm might not be a problem but considering how long he takes to climax you might want to take him to be evaluated by a docter.
Also personally,I have never had any problem with getting a orgasm and I do it daily regardless of sex or not.
Re: Boyfriend takes so long to climax, if it all...
Hope that I can help. I had this problem and it used to take me ages to orgasm and quite often I ran out of energy. My wife and I found that if we had alot of foreplay before penetration it solved the problem. If we started to have intercourse too quickly it became a problem. Try masturbating him for a while but don't let him orgasm. Trust me it works.
