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Old 10-26-2007, 08:23 AM   #1
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Hey,

I'm a 19yo male and I'm struggling to figure out my sexuality.

I find girls bodies attractive (but the thought of doing anything sexual doesn't turn me on), though the only time I ever get aroused when with a girl is when kissing and hugging in bed and stuff, though it goes away with any attempt to do anything sexual.

I don't find guys attractive, though the thought of doing stuff with them kinda turns me on, but recently I put it to the test and it didn't turn me on at all.

So I have no idea what is wrong with me. The only thing that actually turns me on is pics/vids of girls being spanked (disciplinary type thing), though I tried spanking a girl and it didn't get me aroused.

What is up with me? This is killing me. Any help appreciated.

- Greemah.

 
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Old 10-26-2007, 10:20 AM   #2
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Re: Sexuality

I don't find guys attractive, though the thought of doing stuff with them kinda turns me on,

I am curious about your situation. Are you talkin about looking , reading or watching male doing male kinda thing????

 
Old 10-26-2007, 05:01 PM   #3
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Re: Sexuality

Well looking at naked guys or guy on guy porn doesn't turn me on at all, but the thought of doing stuff with guys turns me on a bit.

Though a while ago when I was trying to figure myself out I met up with a guy and tried to do sexual stuff with him but it didn't turn me on at all and i didn't like it so I said sorry and left lol.

 
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Re: Sexuality

Well you may be BIsexual.

Don't judge yourself, just explore.

I know gay guys that at one point said they weren't gay because they never thought of guys emotionally, just sexually..but it was because they had no experience at that point.

 
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Re: Sexuality

But I can't physically have sex with a guy or a girl because I don't get turned on by being with either. Emotionally I can only see myself with a girl, but sexually not with either of them.

I have tried doing stuff with a guy and a girl but I'm just not turned on by any of it.

 
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