I'm a 19yo male and I'm struggling to figure out my sexuality.
I find girls bodies attractive (but the thought of doing anything sexual doesn't turn me on), though the only time I ever get aroused when with a girl is when kissing and hugging in bed and stuff, though it goes away with any attempt to do anything sexual.
I don't find guys attractive, though the thought of doing stuff with them kinda turns me on, but recently I put it to the test and it didn't turn me on at all.
So I have no idea what is wrong with me. The only thing that actually turns me on is pics/vids of girls being spanked (disciplinary type thing), though I tried spanking a girl and it didn't get me aroused.
What is up with me? This is killing me. Any help appreciated.
Well looking at naked guys or guy on guy porn doesn't turn me on at all, but the thought of doing stuff with guys turns me on a bit.
Though a while ago when I was trying to figure myself out I met up with a guy and tried to do sexual stuff with him but it didn't turn me on at all and i didn't like it so I said sorry and left lol.
I know gay guys that at one point said they weren't gay because they never thought of guys emotionally, just sexually..but it was because they had no experience at that point.
But I can't physically have sex with a guy or a girl because I don't get turned on by being with either. Emotionally I can only see myself with a girl, but sexually not with either of them.
I have tried doing stuff with a guy and a girl but I'm just not turned on by any of it.