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Old 11-29-2007, 10:01 PM   #1
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How to get any sexual pleasure when yu cant touch anymore?

ok i get tons of erections and that's great but i have nerve problems or something cause when i used to tuch, i'd get sharp pains all the time. In the testicles or the shaft.

now , i get super sexual but i can't do nothing. it's like a personal ban cause i know what pains i can suffer if i touch.

i know i can watch porn or something to feel good but watching that just leads me to want more and to want ejaculation or sex which causes pain .so why even bother.

and some people say go to the doctor...i've gone enough times to specialists, they can't find out the problem and i just have t o pay huge bills which i cannot afford.

i guess some people are not made for sex....yet we have high sex drive so it's hard.

 
Old 11-30-2007, 02:01 AM   #2
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Re: How to get any sexual pleasure when yu cant touch anymore?

sounds like you need to get xrays/ CT scans to work out what the problem is

 
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Old 11-30-2007, 11:32 AM   #3
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Re: How to get any sexual pleasure when yu cant touch anymore?

so everytime you masturbate you have pain in the shaft and testicles? so just touching yoruself to pee causes pain?

or the first few times you did it you had pain?

I remember the first few times I did my balls hurt and had tenderness on the shaft (it wasn't used to it)

Did you ever think that maybe you experienced the same thign and now you expect to have pain and so have it?

if just by touching your penis to pee doesn't cause pain then rubbing it shouldn't cause pain.

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Old 11-30-2007, 09:56 PM   #4
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Re: How to get any sexual pleasure when yu cant touch anymore?

the first few times? i've been doing it since years.!! ^_^

well here is how it is. i've been doing it for years. and no pain. and then some time ago idid it and it hurt the shaft badly EVEN though i was using the same technique and doing it lightly. so i had various times where for a long time it's been fine and then one day for some unknown reason it hurts. i've suffered psychologically because of those pains.

Well so now, more recently. i hadn't had pains for longg. and then suddenly one day , i used the same technique as always which didn't cause pain, and BAM! i get extreme pain in the testicle when the penis erected..i didn't even touch much. i just gently rubbed the head but as the scrotom tightened due to the erection, it hurt the testcicle badly WITHOUT any touching on the testticle. then various other times it hurt the testicle at the point of ejaculation.

it's scary...and i don't want to feel that pain again. thankfully i stopped touching for a few days and now i'm psychologically better cause i haven't had any pain for some days. BUT at the same time i havent done anything sexual but i want to ...but i can't cause i know i may get pain.

 
Old 12-01-2007, 11:56 AM   #5
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Re: How to get any sexual pleasure when yu cant touch anymore?

noko,
you say you went to specialists. did they tell you what they ruled out? did they give you a testicular ultrasound? antibiotics?

 
Old 12-01-2007, 01:22 PM   #6
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Re: How to get any sexual pleasure when yu cant touch anymore?

Yes had ultrasound of the testicle. they ruled out testicular torsion. Then before that i had a Penile test where they put a tube camera through the utrethra and check inside the penis . they said i didnt have anything.

So they didn't have a clue, but i just know what it is. they don't ahve to tell me. it's nerve damage.. however the sad thing is doctors don't know and are puzzled and i'm just here all "hrny"...and can't even use it. that's tough.

it's weird though..cause if i was nonsexual then whatever and i wouldn't care. But i'm super sexual always getting hard erections alwys, so even though i don't have a girlfriend, i want to at least touch at times. but i can't cause the testicle hurts if the penis goes super erect from touching or when i ejaculate.


Well in anycase the last week , when i was getting sexual thoughts and wanting to masterbate i just gave it up and didn't and i was pain free: ) . so i guess i'll just never touch or have sex ever and i'll be fine. That appears to be the only solution.

what else to do after you've gone to tons of urologists and they can't help?
I guess acceptance is the only cure in my case right? It's difficult.

Do you think i should get some counseling or therapy to accept this? i think i've heard that there's therapists that deal with sexual problems

 
Old 12-02-2007, 12:14 PM   #7
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Yes had ultrasound of the testicle. they ruled out testicular torsion. Then before that i had a Penile test where they put a tube camera through the utrethra and check inside the penis . they said i didnt have anything.
Well, good to hear it is not a torsion but Damn!

They put a tube up there?!!! Yikes!

How about antibiotics? Testicular pain without any physical cause is usually treated with ab's.

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Do you have a tight scrotum? IOW, are your nuts close to your body most of the time and then when you have an erection get *real* close to where you almost think they are inside? I can see where that would cause pain and any ejaculation would make it worse as they draw up closer at that time. There would be no diagnosis for that. Try taking a real hot shower or get in a hot tub or jacuzzi and give yourself an erection and see if it hurts when your scrotum is relaxed due to the heat and your testicles are not close to your body.

Did they rule out hernia? IOW, did you have to turn your head and cough when the doc was poking up there?

You seem to *want* to have a healthy sex life (some men don't, unfortunately) so I do not think counseling is in order (they will just screw with your mind! )

What type of specialists have you seen? If urologists, a lot of them are ignorant of the causes of testicular pain. One dude wanted to do "exploratory" surgery on my nuts!! I ran like hell from him. I was basically in pain for several years. I tried the whole don't ejaculate thing and that only added "blue balls" to the mix. I took OTC pain relievers and I just kept changing doctors until I finally found one that diagnosed Varicocele. But that should have showed up in your ultrasound.

Damn, I feel for you dude. This has got to be frustrating as hell!

 
Old 12-02-2007, 10:35 PM   #8
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"How about antibiotics? " I guess that wuld be good but any time i go to the docs for my men problems they treatme as i'm crazy. They think male problems like mine don't happen to young guys. One time when i went to the urologist all the patients were elderly so maybe that's why they treat me as crazy. cause it's not commnon for young guys to have these things.

Ohhhh yes. my scrotom is tight. One of the testicles is closer to my body and thus tighter. And that testicle is the one that hurts when i get erections or ejaculate. the other one is loose and it never hurts.

Yeah, they checked me manually and with ultrasound and didn't say anythinga bout hernias. they told me my testes were great.

Oh yes i want a healthy sexlife but seems like i didn't get lucky to have that kind of health. and imagine if i actually had a girl. right now i'm sad just not being able to do anything, doing it withmyself but if i had a girl and i coudlnt' do nothing it would be even worse. especially since i'm not impotent. In fact i'm really potent( meaning i get alot of erections )

Yeah, i've seen urologists. that's it and genereal docs. and yes they seem ignorant.

I had penile pains for 8 months...cause i had some super aweful injury to the penis( nerve damage by accidentally pulling lightly on the foreskin WHICH caused my penis to die for 8 months. this usually doesn't happen to guys if they pull lightly..but i may have abnormal nerves that are weak so they broke or something). I was like dying because i became totally impotent and then i felt all kinds of weird feelings in the penis and also psychologically i was dying.
And i went to uros and guess what they tried to give me. VIAGRA!!! WHAT THE ******???? i went to them because i was in pain and it felt really weird...i wasn't there cause i was just suffering from impotence. anways i never took the viagra even though they did give me some. instead i used herbs and 1 month later i started seeing results and regained potency. in fact im more potent than before. always having hard erections and waking up at night with super hard erections. that is a plus. it feels good to at least have regained that^^anywas that'sa separate issue but i wanted to just show you how urologiists just ignored my problem.

Oh another time when i went to anther urologist he finally was one of the few uros that was nice and listened to me. And he said i may have ORCHALGIA. which is a nerve problem iin the testicles. that time he said there is no cure, that i just have to regularly take just take hot showers and tylenol or something for the pain. that doctor was the one that looked at the results of the clinical tests(ultrasounds) and he looked and saw nothing serious.

in any case. yes this sucks.

 
Old 12-03-2007, 08:49 AM   #9
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hmm.. it sounds like you have some blue ball happening. I've had that so bad before I could barly stand to put jeans on. I've also had pain (like a cramp) if hmm.. dont know how to explain this, clinched the muscles in that area below the testicles, learned how not to do that anymore.

and generally nerve damage means you would have had to do something to cause the damage. masturbation does not cause that sort of thing. Since you have full feeling just sometimes it hurts you dont have nerve damage. (and usually nerve damage is constant ie. numbness or pain it doesn't come and go)

 
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I had penile pains for 8 months...cause i had some super aweful injury to the penis( nerve damage by accidentally pulling lightly on the foreskin WHICH caused my penis to die for 8 months.
Is the pain worse with tight-fitting clothing? Would you rather "go commando?"

If so, and in combination with your previous history of possible nerve damage, this sounds like you ***may*** have Pudendal Nerve Entrapment (PNE). Cyclists get this due to too much pressure on that nerve from their bike seat. It can cause pain and possibly impotence (yes, I know that is not your problem but left untreated it may).

It is often misdiagnosed as orchialgia. That basically translates into "pain in the nuts."

It is treated by physical therapy. If not helpful, doctors will then try steroid injections. The last resort is nerve decompression surgery.

Keep in mind that orchialgia is often over diagnosed for anything that a doctor does not otherwise know a diagnosis. I was diagnosed with that from the doc that I told you about earlier that wanted to do "exploratory surgery" without knowing why so I ran like hell. Damn good I did.

Be extremely cautious of any surgery involving your testicles as it will affect the nerves around each spermatic cord that goes up each side of your abdomen around your bladder. So, you will feel pain all the way up there. Even guys who have had a testicle removed still have that pain and it still feels like they are kicked in the nuts. It may be "phantom pain" but it is totally real.

Approach the doctor that you trust with the possibility of PNE and see what he says or if he can refer you to someone with experience treating PNE. Perhaps at a major college or university that may see more cases of this from their athletes.

Let us know what they say.

If this is not the case and you indeed just have tight nuts causing the problem, you may wish to find a way to keep them warm all the time. Unfortunately, that means wearing warmer underwear. Just don't wear underwear that is so tight that it pulls the boys up too close. I had this problem anytime I wore tight pants. I don't have a pair in the house now, I wear boxers a lot and I don't wear anything at home.

I hope some of this helps.

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