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Old 12-12-2007, 01:10 PM   #1
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Too much masturbation = bad performance in bed?

I was wondering.....if I masturbate everyday, can it affect my performance with my gf??

 
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Re: Too much masturbation = bad performance in bed?

Well, not unless you masturbate excessively and it kills your mood and drive to have sex with your girlfriend. Other than that I would say no, as long as you're still getting aroused and have the desire to have physical sex with her it shouldn't present a problem.


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Re: Too much masturbation = bad performance in bed?

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I was wondering.....if I masturbate everyday, can it affect my performance with my gf??
no it doesn't. Now if you are having trouble having sex with the girlfriend then you might be having soem preformance anxiety. Which is hard to get over but can be.

 
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Re: Too much masturbation = bad performance in bed?

yes absolutely, you should be saving your desire for your GF

 
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yes absolutely, you should be saving your desire for your GF
So a man should only get pleasure when a female says he can? Sorry, but no. That viewpoint would mean males were slaves to our female overlords. I'm sure that would go over very well if men tried taht with women (though I think men did in the Dark Ages and look how that turned out).

I have also never met a female that wanted/needed sexual release more then a male. My desire for sex with a partner has never been lessoned by masturbation.

 
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Re: Too much masturbation = bad performance in bed?

Agreed Bengie..

Rose I think I see your view but as you probably know by now men are extremely horny creatures. If we masturbate it doesn't mean we won't want sex with our spouses, etc. I was married for quite a number of years, had plently of sex, always worked hard to please her and masturbated quite frequently the entire time.

I know you didn't mean harm, but it's probably as close to impossible for a man not to masturbate. If I couldn't masturbate I think I'd go crazy.


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Re: Too much masturbation = bad performance in bed?

I tried not masturbating for 3-4 days and then making love with my gf. That seemed to work pretty well. It was like I wanted it so bad that it was killing me!! I was harder than ever!! I was just experimenting with this and it seemed to work pretty well. Maybe that is the key......masturbate every 3-4 days instead of everyday so I don't lose interest.

 
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Re: Too much masturbation = bad performance in bed?

Yes, that's it Lex, cut way back on the self pleasure. As you've seen it will make real sex mind blowing. I remember holding off too. I couldn't stop pawing at myself until the actual sex, but when we finally had it I was like a loaded cannon. I held off masturbating too for several days. It took three times with real sex (in one day) to satisy me. Mmm..

Now you know.


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