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Old 12-17-2007, 10:37 PM   #1
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Please help!!! Crippled Penis!!!

Hey,

I was dry humping with my Girlfriend one night and I went a little overboard. I was really turned on and didn't feel pain at the moment, but when we finished, I felt a sharp pain and noticed that my penis was cut a bit and very red.

The cut was about 4mm and looked almost like an ulcer. The red area (approx 1") became like a rug burn I guess and scabbed over. Also, I am not sure, but I think my penis head is sore because there is some pealing there as well. Now, the cut has healed to the point where there is a scar and the rug burned area is pink. There is still some light pealing on the head, but where it meets with the shaft/neck. If I touch this area it is uncomfortable.

Here's the problem now... I have almost no sensation on my penis (other than slight discomfort) still and cannot get a full erection. It is terrible. I mean I can't get into it. I tried masturbating thinking it is a mental block and once I *** that's it, but the only way I can *** is if I use tons and tons of lube or soap, but I still do not get to a full erection...

Will this get better? What should I do? Now, I use aloe lotion on it and hand moisturizer. I apply it every night, but it is not getting any better or at least I am not noticing any difference. I am very desperate and want to have sex again... How long does this take to recover fully? What type of underwear should I wear? Should I not touch my penis for a certain amount of time? Should I start or stop eating/drinking something? Please help me. I want this to be over already... It's been about 3 weeks and it is like I have ED because of it... I can get erect, but it is not a full erection and it is not that hard. Also, if I get it up, it doesn't stay hard long enough to get a condom on. Or sometimes it gets hard and then goes away real fast. I feel so bad when I tell my GF I can't do it because I can't get it up.

It's so tough... going from about 10 times a week (combined sex/masturbation) to once every three days (only masturbation) and I can't get into it at all...

Some of my info:

My diet is extremely healthy and I do not smoke. I drink on occasion, like 1 glass of wine or a beer a week after a meal. I exercise regularly and am in the condition of maybe an NBA point guard. I am 27 years old and turning 28 this March.

I appreciate any advice. Thanks

 
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Old 12-18-2007, 04:24 PM   #2
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Re: Please help!!! Crippled Penis!!!

**** dude...well I'll spare you the needless comments. Give it up to two weeks. If you're really stressed about it, or impatient, I would wait maybe 7 days and go see a doctor about it. Try not to do anything with it while you wait, give it some down-time to recover.

Try not to think about it too much either, I know that's not easy, but you have to do your best because it's easy to get stuck in a negative loop where you psychologically think it's ruined for good, and the thought of that prevents an erection, which makes you think its damaged for good, which prevents an erection, etc. ad infinitum

 
Old 12-20-2007, 12:14 PM   #3
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Re: Please help!!! Crippled Penis!!!

Hey Thanks a lot!!!

Yeah I was getting in that negative loop you were talking about. I'll give it a rest as you said.

Thanks again

Edit: Would watching Porn to induce an erection help me in any way?

Last edited by crippledwarrior; 12-20-2007 at 12:18 PM.

 
Old 12-20-2007, 12:36 PM   #4
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Re: Please help!!! Crippled Penis!!!

Have the cut and soreness totally healed yet?? If not, then honestly, I'd avoid masturbation as well as sex. I'd think that masturbating would slow the healing process; the motion, oils on your hands, any product you might use could all irritate what's trying to heal.

If the cut and soreness have fully healed, then sure give porn a try! If its helped in the past, it may help now.

 
Old 01-08-2008, 01:16 PM   #5
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Re: Please help!!! Crippled Penis!!!

Hey,

Thanks for all your help and feedback. I am still not 100%, but I am close to how I was before and I am getting better and better by the day now.

Yeah, it seems like the best advice was to not touch it. I couldn't help myself though, so I masturbated 2 - 3 times a week, but I used a lot of lube and concentrated so that I went as fast as possible to prevent further injury.

 
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