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Old 12-31-2007, 11:54 AM   #1
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husband doesnt have a sex drive

well to start off with i am a 35 year old wife and my husband is 44 years old. The problem is we really dont have a sex life. At one point he told me he could careless if he ever had sex again. So we are down to maybe once a month. This is making it very rough on our marriage. He is on bp meds but i thought that caused ED. he doesnt have a problem with getting it active just the desire isnt there. anyone else have that problem?

 
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Old 12-31-2007, 02:03 PM   #2
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Re: husband doesnt have a sex drive

Does he show any symptoms of depression?

 
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Old 12-31-2007, 02:11 PM   #3
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Re: husband doesnt have a sex drive

I think the problem is a small one but he needs counseling and a completed medical physical.
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Old 12-31-2007, 03:57 PM   #4
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Re: husband doesnt have a sex drive

nope doesnt seem depressed but he really hasnt been sexually active his whole life

 
Old 12-31-2007, 04:44 PM   #5
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Re: husband doesnt have a sex drive

Most common reason is - men are whatching too much internet porn.

 
Old 12-31-2007, 06:13 PM   #6
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Re: husband doesnt have a sex drive

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Most common reason is - men are whatching too much internet porn.
my husband doesnt watch internet porn or video. nope not gay either. just said that he just doesnt get in the mood

 
Old 12-31-2007, 07:07 PM   #7
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Re: husband doesnt have a sex drive

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At one point he told me he could careless if he ever had sex again.
mrspeanut,
I really don't think there is anything you can do as long as he doesn't care. That is not a medical problem. Not caring is a choice. There has to be a reason behind it. If he doesn't care because of some sort of physical problem that he is just tired of trying to deal with, that is something else. Did you have a satisfactory sexual relationship previously? If so, did you notice the time he became dis-interested? If so, are you aware of anything else that may have happened at that time? You need to tell him how his not caring is affecting your relationship.

 
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