Re: ED at 20??
I'm guessing you really like this girl and you don't want to screw anything up with her and so you are worried about trying to make a good impression and making her like you as much as possible.
All that worry has killed the fun and now your penis thinks this is a serious situation so he can't cooperate. Nothing kills fun like worry.
I think you need to chill out, cuddle more and go for sex less. Nothing is wrong with some hand stimulation, kissing and hugging until you guys get really comfy with each other. Maybe a moritorium on being naked for a month or two. Find new places to make out and concentrate on making her feel great and forget your penis. If he thinks there is fun involved he will change his tune soon enough. When the pressure is off, I bet you get lots of erections.
I assume you don't have trouble masturbating...maybe cut that back dramatically as well.
Last edited by orion; 01-20-2008 at 05:24 PM.