| | Where did the tiger go?
Hi everyone, its my first post here, and I really need some help! I'm 36 yrs old, just about 9 months seperated out of a 6 year relationship with 2 beatiful healthy boys to show for it. Before i met my last ex-wife, however, I went through a period of 5 or so years (from age 27-31) where i was typically single, had no serious relationships for more than a few months at a time, and was extremely actie sexually. Not so much one nighters, but regular partners with whom I was not seriously involved in other ways (friends with benefits). These ladies came to me because i was "THE Tiger" (haha, nickname is Tony), and it was not unusual for me to be able to perform as many as 5-6 times in a 6-8hr session! And that was without long breaks, maybe have a smoke (was into weed at the time too) and then back at it.
The problem is, when i met my estranged wife, all began to change. Sex with her was not particularly enjoyable most of the time, and over the 6 yrs we were together, my drive plummeted. Mind you, I still wanted to have sex, just wouldrather masturbate to porn than be with her as it was much more satisfying.
I now have a young girlfriend, and she is amazing in bed! However, even with her, I find myself often unable to maitain an erection once we begin actual intercourse. I have no problems getting an erection, and ussually maintaining it throughout foreplay, which can sometimes be 1-2 hrs, but once intercourse begins, I'm down in 5-6 min without even ejaculating!
Is this just psychological, or should i try Natural Ehancement supplements, or what? I ama going through other difficulties, and have no insurance to see a doctor about it at the moment.
Sorry for the long ramble, but necessary to see the whole picture.
Last edited by Raevyn; 01-22-2008 at 12:47 PM.