Just need a bit a reassurance
Hey all, hope all is well with you. I just need a bit of reassurance and hopefully I can find it here. Exactly one week ago, my girlfriend and I were engaged in a sexual activity. Now right before I could ejaculate, my frenulum tore. I can't be sure if it's a complete tear or not, but either way it's healing nicely; at least I think it is. I haven't had sex or masturbated since the incident and I've been regularly applying antibiotic cream to the area.
Here are my problems though: I'm afraid it might grow back shorter and maybe require some sort surgical intervention (frenuloplasty for example) and two, I've been quite traumatized by what happened. Now before it happened, I never had any problem retracting the foreskin while erect. However, now it feels kind of uncomfortable when I get to the base of the glans. Is this normal? Because as I said above, it's only been a week so it's still a bit sensitive. Other than that, everything is fine. I was just wondering if that was normal.
However, I'm kind of traumatized by what happened. There was so much blood, I thought I was going to bleed to death. It didn't really hurt, except for the initial tearing. My God though, the blood. After that fiasco, I'm afraid of having sex or getting a handjob to be honest. For men who have unfortunatly had to suffer the same fate, were you afraid afterwards as well?
That's all I wanted to know. I'm sorry for the lengthy post. Thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to reply. Have a nice day.