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Old 01-23-2008, 08:08 AM   #1
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What to do when have urge to ejaculate and orgasm but Physically cant

I'm 28 never had sex.. and it's very unlikely cause having a girlfriend is kinda impossible for me since i'm not a social person.

Anyways, so I always feel like i want to have sex and orgasm and ejaculate. But i cant' masterbate cause i'm injured in the Penis and recently i get Testicle pain with ejaculation so i dont even want to do any masterbation.

I also dont even get wet dreams. So what can i do?

This is my most recent reason why i feel like my sexual life has come to an end: For the past few months i've been trying to figure out ways to masterbate without penile pain..and failed many times. Suffered psychologically from the pain a lot. But just recently i found a technique whereby i just rub the head and not the trunk( where the damage nerve is) so i was happy and all.. But then out of who knows where , one day when i tried it again....my testicle hurt intensely just from ejaculating. I said "oh well maybe that just happend that time but it wont happen again" Yet it did happen again and the pain was even worse. then i tried after a few weeks and same thing happeend.

Ok i'm really tired of having pain so i give up. However givingup doesnt stop my body from craving sex. The feeling of wanting sex is so intense especially after i had my penile injury(2004) and i got better(2007)..

I want to experience at least some masterbation.. knowing that having real sex is impossible . But now with penile and Testicle pain on ejaculation, even that is not possible.

Is mental masterbation( no touching...just thinking) the only thing left for me to do?

 
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Old 01-25-2008, 11:42 AM   #2
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Re: What to do when have urge to ejaculate and orgasm but Physically cant

Sorry to hear about your troubles - how do you know you have nerve damage?
Did you go to a neuro and get the feather test? or just your own experience? Nerve damage can be a tricky thing to isolate from everything else going on.
The good thing is it sounds like is the the head - where it counts - is not damaged.

I'm in your same boat a little .... have pain on the head and lack of sensation and not sure what to do about it either.

good luck -

 
Old 01-25-2008, 05:50 PM   #3
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Re: What to do when have urge to ejaculate and orgasm but Physically cant

i know that i have nerve damage just from experience. When i had the penis injury in 2004.. It was a sharp pain, then from that day on.. i was impotent..and had this weird pins and needles- like constant sensation inside my penis. But i didn't have any discoloration or blood or anything.

Yeah, the head is not damaged at all. But it's tricky to masterbate the head only.. i finally figured out a way to do it..really light rubbing to ONLY the head..with only the index finger.. slowly and carefully. That worked..(until then i discovered that my testicle hurts with ejaculation...so it was really painful)

The shaft is what is damaged badly. all the attempts i've tried since after i got a bit better from the penis injury in 2005 cause extreme pain and just from light rubbing of the shaft.. it was scary... luckly by not touching for a few days, the pain went away and i would feel normal again.

Man it's sad you have problems like me. too bad.
maybe you and i will become normal in our next life. Maybe tht's why i dont have a girlfriend or possibility of it,, cause maybe god/nature doesnt want me to have one until my next life

 
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