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Old 01-26-2008, 08:56 AM   #1
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Trouble getting erection with a new partner?

thanks for the help

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Old 01-26-2008, 03:35 PM   #2
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Re: Trouble getting erection with a new partner?

Hi!

Although I am 20, I can relate to this problem.

When I'm with a new girl, I have a very hard time getting erect. It's a stress issue. It's very frustrating.

A few suggestions:

Have a few drinks first. A great stress reliever. Even my psychologist suggested this! Just a few, though, not enough so he physically can't get it up!

Don't plan sex. That leads to more stress. Hang out a few more times before you go to do it.

I hear Cialis is good for this. It's a 36 hour formula so "you're ready when the moment is right."



I have yet to have decent enough health insurance so I can try Cialis. So I can't say if it works, but from what I hear (a few reliable sources) it does miracles. I also have yet to conquer this problem, but I know for a fact that it's just a mental issue, nothing physical.


Thank you and good luck!

And good for you for sticking by his side and trying to help him. I have yet to meet such a woman...

Pete

 
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Old 01-26-2008, 07:37 PM   #3
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Re: Trouble getting erection with a new partner?

thanks for the help

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Old 01-26-2008, 07:42 PM   #4
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Re: Trouble getting erection with a new partner?

Hasn't been with anybody in about 20 years? That means he's probably developed 20 years' worth of particular masturbation habits that you, unfortunately, are not going to be able to match on the first night.

I suspect that since it didn't work the first time, it might take a few tries before things are back on track for him. You'd think it'd be like riding a bike, but if he's developed any particular habits that sex with a partner can't mimic, then it could take a bit of practice. And there doesn't have to be anything wrong with practice .

Good luck.

 
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