| Sensitivity and Ejaculate
I'm a 22 year old male in relatively good shape. My erections are relatively strong these days during masturbation (I've gone through periods where they've been a little stronger, but I'm pretty strong these days). Sometimes I've had problems keeping it up during intercourse. I've always had a lot of problems ejaculating during sex... for example, I've never once 'gotten there' with a condom on, and only once or twice ever with oral. I pretty much only 'get mine' with the girl on top--I think it's just a body position thing, as I also can't masturbate standing up. I know I can't create sensitivity that isn't there... but I'm wondering if there are any tricks I can practice to help myself 'get over the hump' in a more timely manner(I'm also quite large penis-wise, and it can get pretty painful for some girls after a while).
On a (likely) unrelated note, I'm not ejaculating like I used to. It seemed like it happened pretty much overnight... without getting too graphic here, I used to shoot 3-4 relatively powerful 'bursts.' Now I may get one mild burst, then kind of just ooze. Yeah, maybe part of this is just some strange pride/vanity, but the orgasms now also feel much less powerful.
Anyone got advice for either of my two questions? Thanks.
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