My Guy Can Never Ejaculate Inside of Me - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

Grazianna · 04-17-2008, 08:14 PM

Ever since I've known my boyfriend, he's never been able to ejaculate inside of me. I've read about this disorder, and he's been to counseling, but he still can't do it. I have to admit, it's like he's being stingy. Yes he can achieve orgasm if he masturbates - but not with me.

I suspect he's gay and just can't "do it" with a woman. Any ideas, insights or suggestions?

rhiannon777 · 04-17-2008, 09:35 PM

Guys I've known like this are usually TERRIFIED of getting a girl pregnant. The fear keeps them from being able to ejaculate inside a woman.

springbok2007 · 04-22-2008, 12:11 AM

I suffered from the same thing for the first 6 month with my new girlfriend in "fear" of getting her pregnant, but she had a open conversation with me about this "pregnant" thing and now its all fine. Its his mind and its your job to put him at ease. He is not gay! Some men actually do like to watch themselves ejaculate. Discuss this with him.

tattman · 04-22-2008, 10:49 PM

ask him if you can masturbate him to equaculatioin and move on from there slowly. And see if he will wear a comdom while having sex it might help.