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Old 05-22-2008, 06:15 PM   #1
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I can't get my girlfriend or ANY girl pregnant for that matter...

What the &@#*?!...sorry but it's been kinda frustrating. I'm 24 and been in 5 steady relationships...sexually active every day might I add - even during the girls period for the past 4 years at least. I had a sperm count (yea...pretty weird for a 24 year old...I know but I thought I might as well since something is obviously wrong) and it was normal....anyway I've come to my own conclusion...of course I know I could be wrong, but my penis is 4 inches when erected and I think it's because of the length...wouldn't that make sense? The further your penis goes in the more likely you'll get a girl pregnant...right? Idk but for my case it just seems like that's what the problem is. Can anyone help or relate?

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Old 05-22-2008, 09:53 PM   #2
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Re: I can't get my girlfriend or ANY girl pregnant for that matter...

I highly doubt thats the problem. I would consult your doc. Are you wanting to get your gf pregnant I guess? Seems different to me because I fear getting my gf pregnant.

 
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Old 05-23-2008, 06:51 AM   #3
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Re: I can't get my girlfriend or ANY girl pregnant for that matter...

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What the &@#*?!...sorry but it's been kinda frustrating. I'm 24 and been in 5 steady relationships...sexually active every day might I add - even during the girls period for the past 4 years at least. I had a sperm count (yea...pretty weird for a 24 year old...I know but I thought I might as well since something is obviously wrong) and it was normal....anyway I've come to my own conclusion...of course I know I could be wrong, but my penis is 4 inches when erected and I think it's because of the length...wouldn't that make sense? The further your penis goes in the more likely you'll get a girl pregnant...right? Idk but for my case it just seems like that's what the problem is. Can anyone help or relate?
its not your penis size.

are you sure your girl friend is fertile? are you sure she is not taking the pill? are you sure she wants a baby and not taking steps to make sure she doesn't get pregnant

 
Old 05-24-2008, 01:41 AM   #4
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Re: I can't get my girlfriend or ANY girl pregnant for that matter...

Its not the size of your penis.. there is other things to consider.

1. it takes the average couple 6-12 months to get pregnant while they are trying
2. one of those sperms have to get to that egg, it is actually a quite low percentage that it happens first go.. the position of the girl helps, i have heard girl on top is a good position for conceving, and also afterwards she should lay on her back with a pillow under her bum for a while.. the gravity might give the sperm a better chance at making it there..
3. If a girl has been on the pill, most times it takes longer to conceive after going off the pill... in other words, the longer she was on the pill, the longer it would take to conceive... (this isn't always the case bby the way)
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Old 05-24-2008, 10:16 AM   #5
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Re: I can't get my girlfriend or ANY girl pregnant for that matter...

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its not your penis size.

are you sure your girl friend is fertile? are you sure she is not taking the pill? are you sure she wants a baby and not taking steps to make sure she doesn't get pregnant
I live with my girlfriend, I forgot to mention and she wants a baby more than I do...she stopped taking her birth control back in January. We've tried propping a pillow under her...btw she's had 4 abortions and one miscarriage over the years from her other bfs that I also shoulda mentioned.

 
Old 05-24-2008, 08:19 PM   #6
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Re: I can't get my girlfriend or ANY girl pregnant for that matter...

abortions and miscarriages can cause problems for a women getting pregnant there could be scare tissue. Have your gf start charting her body basel temperture to see if she is ovulating and when she is so you will know her fertel time. for information on charting her temps look up BBT on the internet there is alot of information. Also have your gf go to a dr for a fertility check up they will do blood work and all and possible a test to check her tubes to see if they are open. For alot more information on getting pregnant try going to the TTC board they can give you alot of help there.
The best position having sex trying to get pregnant is any position where the semen is likely to stay when you pull out(man on top from behind stuff like that)
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Old 05-25-2008, 07:10 PM   #7
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Re: I can't get my girlfriend or ANY girl pregnant for that matter...

If you have second thoughts about becoming a father, why are you doing this?
If you are not ready for a lifetime commitment to a child, why are you attempting to have one? Are you really being fair to the as yet unconceived child? Is your plan to conceive and leave? Or is it to warm up to fatherhood gradually, as your child grows up? It sounds to me like you really, really haven't thought this one all the way through. It also sounds like there is a bit of wishful thinking there, in believing that you can't get her pregnant. This bears more introspection. I was 19 when my girlfriend became pregnant, but there was much more commitment inside me. Even so, it was not an easy thing.
If you have doubts about going the distance, you might want to reconsider running the race.

 
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