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Old 07-31-2008, 11:44 PM   #1
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Partners Vagina Is Not Firm & Tight

My loving partner for 8 years does not have a firm
tight Vagina due to having three children from
natural birth. Able to maintain an erection, but
don't get enough stimulation to have a release
sometimes and have to withdraw so I can
stimulate myself and reenter her Vagina just
before I release in her. I've seen these creams
that claim to make the Vagina tight for about
two hours. Are these creams safe to use and
do they work. There is also a surgical procedure
that is available, but don't want my partner to
go through any painful surgeries. ANY FEEDBACK
WOULD BE HELPFUL AND APPRECIATED.

 
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Old 08-01-2008, 08:21 AM   #2
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Re: Partners Vagina Is Not Firm & Tight

My partner passed three children through her vagina, the smallest being 9 1/2 pounds, and the largest being 10 pounds. She and I had no problem with tightness or comfort afterwards.
Are you sure this isn't psychological? If not, is there a tactful, non-hurting way you could suggest kegel exercises?

 
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Old 08-02-2008, 12:18 AM   #3
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Re: Partners Vagina Is Not Firm & Tight

The kegel exercises are good. Also, I don't know what positions you use. It can be quite different depending on the position.

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Old 08-02-2008, 04:24 PM   #4
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Re: Partners Vagina Is Not Firm & Tight

you also might try using less pressure when you masturbate. often, men desensitize themselves, with a tight grip.

 
Old 08-03-2008, 01:57 PM   #5
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Re: Partners Vagina Is Not Firm & Tight

Thanks for the feedback. My circumstances might be age
related, but I still feel that it's also related to the vagina.
To prove this, I've stimutated myself to the point of prerelease,
reentered the vagina and lost the stimulation feelings for
a complete release. Partner is happy and satisfied we have a
prolonged session, but after awhile you lose interest and it
begins to feel like work instead of pleasure. We do have good
wonderful loving sessions. ADDITIONAL INFO FROM THE OTHER
MEMBERS CAN MAKE A GREAT SESSION INTO A TERRIFIC SESSION.
Just a issue that I'm dealing with right now and really have no
complaints, because there are many guys dealing with alot more
serious issues.

 
Old 01-03-2010, 06:39 PM   #6
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Re: Partners Vagina Is Not Firm & Tight

I say she can do vagina exercises or get Allum and douche with it.that works

 
Old 01-05-2010, 12:53 PM   #7
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Re: Partners Vagina Is Not Firm & Tight

I'm a woman and kegel exercises definitely help keep me tight. highly recommended

 
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