Re: Can a sexless life cause anxiety?
Hey man, every human is different, with different needs and emotional/physical desires. Have you never been motivated to have sex, or are you shy in such a way that it's inhinbited you from pursuing relationships? Either way, it's nothing to be ashamed of or let negatively influence your self esteem.
As for the anxiety, I suspect you're dealing with some emotional issues that probably cause both your lack of sexual activity AND your anxiety and depression. In other words, your anxiety may reflect issues larger than just your sex life.
I would suggest talking to a counselor, psychiatrist, psychologist, etc. There's no reason to internalize your feelings - getting them out in the open with a professional can only help.
Most of all, hold your head up - you're probably a great human being who shouldn't let your sex life define you as a person. Life is about so much more than just having sex or having a girlfriend ...
Seriously, talk to a professional so you can lick the anxiety, and when you're ready and you meet the right girl, nature will take its course like it has untold times before.
Last edited by howerd; 09-20-2008 at 02:09 AM.