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Old 03-26-2009, 08:32 AM   #1
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why is my penis not staying hard

I am a very health ethletic 48 year old man, I eat right take care of myself and look like I am 35 years old. I have been in a relationship with a 29 year old girl for 6 years broke up for one she slept with someone else as I did. We are back together and I think its because Our sex life was amazing but after the breakup I did encounter a problem, I couldn't stay hard or sometimes even had a hard time getting hard. At the time of the breakup I did get depressed and began to have financial problems as well not sure if that was part of my problem. I did masturbate allot ever since I was 12 or 13 years old I watched lots of porn, I did put lots of pressure when I masturbated, recently I read on one of your posts it's not good to put presume.Last night when we had sex I got limp and she noticed it she did oral and other things to get me hard we had sex but it didn't get as hard as I usually am. I had this problem for a year now but this is the first time with my woman since we did just get back together is there a way I can get my erection back without using Viagra? please help

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Old 03-26-2009, 05:49 PM   #2
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Re: why is my penis not staying hard

First off, you might want to get a physical and tell the doctor about your problem. Tell him you don't want Viagra except as a last resort. Some worrisome health issues could be causing your problem and you want to rule those out.

If nothing physical is found, then you may wish to evaluate your relationship and life. Stress can cause issues. Maybe you harbor some lingering issues with your reunited girlfriend. Financial issues, if still there, can cause problems.

Now, if you can still masturbate ok, then you probably have some issue with her and your physical health is probably not a problem. If this is the case, then you may need to do some thinking about what the issue is.

 
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Old 03-26-2009, 07:46 PM   #3
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Re: why is my penis not staying hard

first i want to thank you for replying Magnetic...

I guess I have no choice but to see a doctor but like I said I am very healthy, I have an extreme workout program including weights, cardio and I don't feel and physical discomfort...
I don't think it is my girlfriend because I 1st noticed this problem after we broke up masturbating and with another woman in fact during the break up every time I had sex with my girlfriend I did really well but with others it wasn't as irrect...

This is the 1st time it happened with my girlfriend...

 
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Re: why is my penis not staying hard

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first i want to thank you for replying Magnetic...

I guess I have no choice but to see a doctor but like I said I am very healthy, I have an extreme workout program including weights, cardio and I don't feel and physical discomfort...
I don't think it is my girlfriend because I 1st noticed this problem after we broke up masturbating and with another woman in fact during the break up every time I had sex with my girlfriend I did really well but with others it wasn't as irrect...

This is the 1st time it happened with my girlfriend...
Apart from psychological, relational and financial problems, I'd like to know more about the way you eat and how much you sleep.

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Old 03-28-2009, 06:10 AM   #5
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Re: why is my penis not staying hard

I eat mostly healthy I really can't sleep I'm not sure if its from stress or what?

 
Old 03-28-2009, 11:10 AM   #6
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Re: why is my penis not staying hard

Try pomegranite pills. They are known to clear arteries. It may take a week.

 
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