And no, This is NOT a brag !! - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

pjr · 08-29-2001, 03:36 AM

Do any of you guys have a problem reaching a climax ??
I can get a rock hard erection, but have trouble when I need to climax (even during masturbation)
My wife and I have a lot of fun during sex, and so it's not a bordom thing - I think I must just have an un-sensitive penis !
I was circumcised young, and spent my teen years like all boys do - (hands down pants) - but I can't reach a climax as quickly as I used to do.

Lance2 · 08-29-2001, 03:56 AM

Certainly wish that sometimes I could slow that process down and have more fun like you do! Seriously, being circumcized does apparently take away some of the sensitivity although I'm uncut so I can't say that from personal experience. As we get older things do slow down a bit...but you don't say how old you are. Yep, like all the rest of us as teens it was quick and often! I don't know quite what to tell you, maybe someone else has some better tips....I mainly just wanted to validate your question and offer what I could!

pjr · 08-29-2001, 05:49 AM

Thanks for replying.

(I am 30 years old.)
People always tell me I am lucky, but not being able to reach a climax quickly enough can have negative energy on a relationship too (my wife thinks she doesn't exite me etc)
I have to think about all sorts of things to finally reach a climax, and I usually end up having to masturbate after making love so I can ***

I do feel sorry for men who prematurely ejaculate, but for me the thought of being able to *** first is a fantasy !!

Oh how ironic life is !

Lance2 · 08-29-2001, 02:37 PM

You are so right...Oh how ironic life is...some of us are done too quick and others are too slow or not at all! I suppose that can be a real bummer sometime and would certainly understand that negative energy sorta thing. Just curious...how long have you been married and is this "slow down" always been around or is it new to your sex life?

pjr · 08-30-2001, 08:20 AM

we have been together for over 5 years, but I had the same problem with x-gf's too.
The first few times are OK (i.e. someone different in bed with you), but the novelty wears off after a few days !!
I know I can *** quickly if something REALLY gets me going (like when my wife said she sometimes likes to masturbate while thinking of other women she works with), but again after a couple of days this fantasy wears off too.

I know the brain is the largest sex organ, and mine works overtime... so what do I do ?? (and be4 someone suggests it ..... I am NOT gay and just haven't realizes yet)