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Old 06-19-2003, 11:08 AM   #1
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Need help on how to last longer during sex.

please help

 
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Old 06-19-2003, 12:07 PM   #2
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Don't we all! LOL If I had the answer I'd be glad to help, this just takes some practice and skill building. There are no easy answers and each of us has to work this out. You could do some research on premature ejaculation as there are some things you can do (that don't include thinking about other things like sports or race cars...those seem to always make the list!) Good luck and just remember that practice makes perfect!

 
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Yeah, but I got a serious problem.

I cant go any longer than 2 minutes on the first time and no more than 5 minutes on the second time.

What exactly do you mean practice makes perfect? I've been doing it quite a lot and its almost always the same thing.

Should I pull out and start again or think about other things?

help me out please

 
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First, lets talk about your age. If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? The reference to practice makes perfect is related to the more experience we have, usually the better we can be at making things last longer. And I've tried the slow down, stop thrusting and such to make myself last longer...wife doesn't like that at all...it is much easier for us to "get off" than them and it takes alot of direct stimulation for them. Sounds like you've worked at the multiple times (more than one intercourse) during the same time period. This is something that is usually suggested...the second time does take longer. You may try to masturbate first (add that to foreplay, its actually pretty good once you teach your partner what works for you) this way, your intercourse may last longer and you both "get off"...always make sure that no matter what she is satisfied. That way both of you are pleasured and neither of you terribly frustrated. There is an exercise that involves the kegel muscle, this is one that you'll have to research. I've never done it but it involves using the same muscle group you use to keep from peeing on yourself when you have to go really bad. Supposedly you can use the same muscles to stop an ejaculation. Like I said....never done that one before. If you aren't using a condom, adding one may help to delay things a bit as well. You may also add the over the counter lotion that helps desensitize things, hope some of this helps. Others may have some tricks as well!

 
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I am 21 years old.
Condom doesnt help much either.
I "get her off" through oral and through touch but she cant reach an orgasm through sex which frudtrates me.
I cant last more than 5 minutes.
We do it on average twice a week.
Thinking about other things doesnt help much, concentrating on the act itself doesnt help either
and yeah....she gets ****ed off when i slow down or stop.
I am just wondering what I can do, except for kegel exercises to last longer, because I heard people can last for 2-3 hours

 
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