one time at the gym - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

artickfire · 01-23-2003, 07:49 PM

has any of you went to the gym? say im 21 and i still get hard in the gym showers does that mean im gay ? i know im not though. Has that ever happend to you i also get hard at the hs gym showers whats it mean? do other guys look at the other penis to see how they stack up? please look at reasond dont just look

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Lance2 · 01-24-2003, 03:30 AM

Hey bud, I'm in a gym several times a week. I've never had an erection there but I've heard of it happening to guys before. It really isn't any big deal (no pun intended!) sometimes our lil guy has a mind of his own and it isn't always associated with anything sexual. If you pop a boner in the gym, just try to ignore it. Sure, other guys might notice (if you're in the shower everyone is naked) but most of us don't care or look to see what's going on around us. I'd try not to think about such things as that could make it happen!

Weaver · 01-24-2003, 06:33 AM

Lance is right. You could get a boner anytime, anyplace. It just happens.

If you are in the shower when it happens, just hold your towel in front of you. The towel will drape over your boner and cover it up so no one will see it. Don't wrap the towel around your waist. The boner will just tent the towel and make it more obvious.

And don't get all up-tight if it happens. I can tell that you don't mind being around other guys with no clothing on, but you just feel "naked" when you have an erection and are around other guys.

Exploding Boy · 03-15-2003, 03:49 PM

Everyone has sneaked a peak from time to time. Getting hard when you're naked in public is normal and doesn't mean you're gay. If you are gay it's not a big deal anyway.

Tauren · 03-16-2003, 06:22 AM

It depends on what your thoughts were at the moment. And, if you are gay, there is nothing with it -- that's your life, your perogative.

I, personally, never had a hard-on in a public shower or gym. But, if it were a female public gym, that would all change.