First, Viagra does not increase your sex drive. You don't seem to have an ED problem at all!
Second, frequency of sex does not equate to the amount of love. Some women do seem to think this, though, and will insist on having frequent sex as proof of love. In your case, the fact she can still orgasm when you aparently just lie there, shows to me she simply likes sex and does it for reason.
She really needs to be more respectful of you. I mean, if a man were to climb aboard his wife who really didn't want sex whenever he wanted to, we would be harping about how insensitive the man was and how this might even be marital rape. The fact that the man gets an erection from his wife's play does not necessarily mean he wants sex, and this is something women find difficult to understand.
You may either have to get forceful with her when she wants it and you don't, and simply tell her no. This could be a difficult thing to do, but it is what women often have to do when their husbands are oversexed. Tell her she is free to masturbate on her own, but to please let you rest. If this doesn't work, or if you are too concerned about hurting her, and if a talk won't work, then you both may need sex therapy to work out your differences.
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