way out there - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

wayne79 · 05-25-2002, 02:50 AM

i am a married man that loves sex. but i want it from anyone anywhere. my wife doesnt know about this side of me. i feel guilty but i love this life. help please

Lance2 · 05-25-2002, 04:59 AM

Man that is tough. When you say anyone anywhere are you talking both male and female and are you actually doing this or just thinking about it? Also, how long has this been going on? How old are you? I know I'm asking lots of questions but we need a bit more info to help you. We are all sexual beings and love it, whenever and however we can get it. But, sounds as if you are feeling a bit out of control right now. Sexual addiction is a real addiction and does create quite the problem for the person. Some of what you are expressing in your post leads me to believe that this may be true for you. Get back with us and we'll keep talking. Hang in there!

Gogetter · 05-28-2002, 12:10 PM

Wow! Your message sound serious. How long have you been married? Does your wife suspect anything? Do you have kids? You stated that you want sex with anyone, anywhere. Does this mean that you actually have sex or you just desire it a lot and that is what is making you feel guilty? Please respond. We would like to help.

almoststr8dad · 07-25-2002, 08:04 PM

This one struck a chord with me. I'm happily married, 3 children, but have had 2 ongoing affairs with women and recently have had sex with a male friend and also gone to adult arcades to get oral sex from males and females. Basically I'm sex obsessed and was wondering if I have some kind of hormone imbalance. It's taking me longer to masturbate or *** and I was wondering if maybe the thrill of doing this was some kind of compensation for low adrenals or testosterone. I used to think about it but now I'm doing it just about every day and feeling guilty about it.

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