just wondering - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

bobby23 · 08-21-2002, 07:03 PM

hey guys, i was just wondering...how come some times when u ejaculate it comes flying out and some times it sort of jus runs out?...or am i the only one this happens too?

Weaver · 08-22-2002, 12:15 PM

I think it has something to do with how much you are holding back and trying not to ***, how excited you are and how old you are.

As you get older, it dribbles a lot and you just pray you can get the guy up so you can ***.

Lance2 · 08-22-2002, 02:08 PM

Hey guys, this happens to all of us. Our ejaculations will change from one to the next depending on alot of different factors. Some of them involving time since last ejaculation or sexual release, level of excitement and arousal and overall technique of masturbation. No problems and nothing to worry about if you dribble or shoot!

lordduzi · 08-22-2002, 03:23 PM

Ejaculations are caused by muscle contractions. So if the muscles are fatigued or weak, the ejaculate can just dribble. You can do Kegels to increase muscle strength. These are simple to do, next time you are urinating try to stop the flow concentrating on the muscles around your urethra. Once you know which muscles to do. You can sit and watch tv and do Kegels. Just concentrate and tighten these muscles for series of reps just like any other excercise. That will strengthen the muscles and thus the ejaculate.