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Old 10-16-2009, 04:15 PM   #1
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Intercourse with a foreskin.

Thanks for the replies to my other question! I had another question, I'm still a virgin so I was wondering how someone who well wasn't circumsized had sex, I'm uncircumsized and proud but whenever I watch a porno all the men have had their foreskin cut off and it looks like they can grab the tip with no pain or anything, whenever i touch the tip of my penis It tends to hurt, I've been trying to peel the skin back while showering/urinating, i have no problems peeling the skin back, been trying to keep the head exposed as much as I could for the past year and It still tends to hurt, my fears are that I'd be in too much pain during sex, would being inside the vagina not cause any pain? Also my last question is, how would you "apply" a condom? Would you peel the skin back put it on then peel the skin over it, or just simply put it on over the skin? Thanks again.

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Old 10-17-2009, 10:31 PM   #2
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Re: Intercourse with a foreskin.

To desensitise your penis head, try masturbating with your foreskin peeled back behind the head and make sure you use lubrication. Touch your exposed head as much as possible to desensitise it; for example, retract your foreskin in the shower, soap up your penis and use plenty of friction.

It's not a good idea to keep your foreskin retracted for hours at a time as there is a chance of paraphimosis.

Natural vaginal lubrication will help to minimise any pain when your penis is inside the vagina, so having sex with your foreskin retracted should be no problem. The vaginal walls are very soft and comfortable. There's no need to be afraid of pain during sex.

To use a condom, retract your foreskin so it is behind the penis head and leave it there. Roll on the condom and have sex with the foreskin retracted. You will find that the latex makes the head less sensitive. If you rolled the condom over an unretracted foreskin, there would not be much pleasurable sensation during sex.
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Old 10-18-2009, 09:45 PM   #3
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Re: Intercourse with a foreskin.

yeah ive tried putting a condom on directly on the head put it hurt way too much, ill try the showering thing you suggested, although id feel kind of weird going into a pharmacy store to buy lube, but ill try anything at this point

 
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Re: Intercourse with a foreskin.

Mark, there is no need to go to a pharmacy to buy lube. Moisturising cream, hand lotion, baby oil -- even vegetable oil from the kitchen -- are all acceptable alternatives.

About my suggestion to soap up in the shower, I should have mentioned that soap causes inflammation in some penises, and you need to be careful that you don't get soap in the urethra.
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Re: Intercourse with a foreskin.

ah i see, yeah i tried to just wash the head last night and the pain was too much, I didn't jump right into it either, tried to ease in but it was still way too painful =(

 
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Re: Intercourse with a foreskin.

peel back with one hand, and cup the water in your other hand, so you can control how much water hits your penis. most problems with the skin of the penis come from using soap. just plain water will clean as well, but not irritate.

 
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