| | Men? My boyfriend can't climax and I don't know why
If anyone has any experience with same problem, help would be really appreciated.
We live in different countries (sounds impossible, but isn't) and so we haven't had much of a sex life, but we love each other and we're very open with each other. We only started having sex quite recently, although we've been together for about two years, mostly because he was a virgin when we met each other.
The only time he has ever done it in my presence we were both quite drunk having just been to a party (and having sex). I know that he looks at porn all the time, and 'shakes hand with the sheriff' at least once every day too. Also, I happen to know that when he does it he's incredibly vigorous about it. Everytime it doesn't happen he feels terrible - guilty - and I feel a bit the same, like it would be easier with someone else.
I've told him that if he wants to try it with someone else, he can but he doesn't want to and he's convinced it wouldn't make a difference. He's also completely oversensitive to me. He gets hard even when I'm in the same room, I think it's hell for him.
I think he feels worried about it because its happened before and nervous because I'm much more sexually experienced than him. We don't ignore it or let it be awkward, we talk about it and we've tried lots of different positions, foreplay etc, but no joy. Do you think it's because he is tense, he masturbates too much or what? I really want to stick with him and help him with it.