Originally Posted by Lily2005
If I were in your girlfriend's shoes, I'd prefer open communication.
I know but that's just so much easier said than done.
If I get nervous enough to lose erections at 18 with a healthy lifestyle, it's just way too optimistic to think that I'm gunna be able to muster the courage to tell her that I might have a problem. That's honestly the last thing I want to do.
Plus, she is NOT the type of girl that likes to talk about anything sexual. She's all unicorns and butterflies and she'd rather "make love" than "have sex" if you know what I mean. It's not that she isn't a supportive person but I just don't see that conversation going well at all...
Would cutting down on masturbation (or stopping completely) help? Right now I masturbate 3-4 times a week. I'd honestly be willing to just go cold turkey I don't even care how bad my stamina gets. I rather be able to make this girl happy for at least SOME amount of time.
Any other suggestions? I don't want to rely on pills like Viagra. I hate getting dependent on medication and I'm just too young and healthy to be using that stuff. There has to be another way....