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Old 10-05-2003, 09:19 PM   #1
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i am 19 years old. when i'm with my girlfriend i can get erect during foreplay but shortly after i penetrate her i go limp and usually can't get my erection back, and if i do, the same thing happens again. however, when i masturbate, i have no problems. can anyone suggest anything to help me? thank you.

 
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Could be a couple of things. It may be nerves or "performance anxiety" which happens to alot of us early in our sexuality or when we're with something new or really want things to work well. It may also be that your penis is "trained" to respond to your masturbation style...grip, speed, technique etc. Try as we might, we simply can't create a vagina for ourselves through masturbation. You know that it works because it does...for you. Also, our penis is very much controlled by our "head"...unfortunately when something like this happens, our fear is that it will continue to happen and that makes this worse. You may try a couple of things...stop masturbating for a few days before you attempt things again. Change your masturbation habits by varying things, speed, grip, technique...add lube if you don't use it already and see if that helps. And next time you have sex, forget about past "failures" and focus on the pleasure, be patient and keep trying. Most of all, don't be embarassed, you aren't the first guy to have to deal with this and you won't be the last! Hope this helps!

 
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thanks for your help. i'm pretty sure that my main problem is performance anxiety because i really do want things to work out well and when they don't i'm very disappointed. do you know of anything i can do to get over this? and also do you think it would be better to just stop masturbating or to masturbate with lubrication to get more of a simulated feel of a vagina?

 
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