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Old 03-04-2010, 10:46 AM   #1
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whats a normal sex drive for a man of 34?

i took anti depressants years ago and my libido has never been the same since. before that i had a very high sex drive, and im still very highly sexed - i think about it all the time. but my capacity for geting aroused and hard is low. basicaly i cant get hard when im with a woman unless she does oral on me. when i watch porn i dont get hard unless i play with myself - the visual stimulation isnt enough on its own - and even then sometimes its a struggle and not a 100 percent erection. sometimes it is, but mostly it isnt. even when i was with my girlfriend a few years ago i couldnt get hard unless i slidd my penis on the entrance to her vagina. i know its not a physical problem cause i get morning erections etc. im at the stage i dont know whats normal for a man of my age. so is this normal? i get the immpression that the average man should pretty much be able to get hard any time he has the opportunity for sex, and should be able to get hard from watching porn no problem, but my ideal woman could walk in here right now wearing the most erotic clothes i can imagine and i wouldnt get hard. im 34.

 
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Old 03-05-2010, 07:44 AM   #2
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Re: whats a normal sex drive for a man of 34?

Sorry to disappoint you, but the word "normal" in sexual things is not like "normal driving"
where you have control - unless you are impaired with a 6-pack. Sexual arousal is involuntary - like morning erections - and voluntary when sensors are triggered in the brain to produce an erection. Normal erection hardness? Normal lasting time before ejaculation? Normal refractory time for 2nd, or 3rd ejaculation? Then comes age, health, physical problems, bad nutrition, drug abuse, twisted mentality in some people, low self-esteem for some men who think they have a small penis to satisfy women, STDs, medications that raise havoc with sexual organs, prostate cancer, menopause, etc., And many men and women go though sexual rushes at times of their lives, while they feel sexually catatonic at other times -depending on the issues they are dealing with at any time-frame of their life. If you are happy with your sex life, then you are "normal!" If you are not, then you are in the "majority" that feel they are missing the gravy train of the life's most sought euphoric and exilarating vanity.

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