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Old 04-04-2010, 11:43 PM   #1
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Issues with premature ejaculation.

Hey all.

I am 21 years old male and I am a virgin, I think. I haven't actually had sex but I've experienced hand-job and oral sex before.

I suffer from premature ejaculation syndrome. When I masturbate (stroking continuously and vigorously) without any stimulation from porn etc, I can last for about 1-2minutes. With porn or during oral sex usually it's usually only about a minute. I hate it and it's making me depressed.

Thinking about something else to avoid ejaculating too quickly does help to a certain degree, although not each time and not always so significantly. But it's hard to keep on focusing on other things while actually having sexual intercourse.

The thing is, I haven't always been suffering from premature ejaculation. I have been masturbating since I was 7-8years old, despite the fact that I hadn't reached puberty back then and I remembered that I used to be able to last longer when I was a teen. I can't really pin-point as to when it actually began but I would give a rough estimation of when I was about 18-19years old. I can't remember by hard, but that was probably the time when I began watching porn and masturbating excessively too.

I remembered that one of my highschool teachers once said that excessive masturbation can cause over-sensitivity or no-sensitivity at all. In other words, it can cause premature-ejaculation (due to over-sensitivity) or erectile dysfunction (due to lack of sensitivity). I don't know if it's because I am inexperienced with sex that I am ejaculating too quickly but I was beginning to wonder if excessive porn and masturbating is the cause of my premature ejaculation syndrome.

I have also noticed that, while masturbating, I would ejaculate quicker if I was lying down or sitting but I can last significantly longer if I was standing or kneeling. Does that make sense? I can't think of any explanation for that.

Can anyone give me some advice and help please. It's really screwing up my life.

 
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Old 04-09-2010, 10:43 PM   #2
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Re: Issues with premature ejaculation.

its hard to say really what leads to this issue. as far as i can tell almost all guys masturbate constantly so i doubt its a frequency problem. i think its more about how your brain perceives the stimuli as ive heard you can train yourself to last longer. i lost my virginity around 18 but i can remember only having PED the first 2-3 times then after that sex lasted a good 15-20min nonstop. i can even remember times when i would have trouble finishing and my g/f at the time would have finished 3-4 times and be ready to do something else. sadly though i lost that ability and am back to only lasting 1-2min. i have a much hotter g/f sure but i still feel like things have changed and i climax way too quickly. just realize this is a problem a lot of men are faced with. its way more than you think. i have a very macho friend who wont admit it but a few of his ex's say he lasts 5min on a good day. the sad part is i have been broken up with over this problem... keep your confidence mate and really just try to look on the bright side of life even though lasting in the sack really does make you feel like God when you can make a chicks head spin...

also... DO NOT SPEND MONEY ON FAKE PROGRAMS OR DRUGS. unless you really research it but if anyone finds a real effective treatment i wouldnt care what the price was but that doesnt mean im not skeptical as hell.

Last edited by ImmortalX; 04-09-2010 at 10:45 PM.

 
Old 08-16-2010, 04:22 AM   #3
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Re: Issues with premature ejaculation.

if you think that lsting that fast is really frustrating, you can opt to see a doctor to sought you out on this. if you are ashamed of what you are encountering, there are several methods that you can try using, like the kegels, to be able to last longer..

some say it is all in the mind, but once you can't control it, you have to find the right method to be able to help you out.

 
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