I am just wondering about something. This has bothered me for years because I feel so abnormal. I was just wondering if men find large lips a turn off. I don't mean the ones on the face! My husband says it's a turn on for him and I know that's all that really matters, but I still feel very self conscious about it. I don't know why, after all these years, but it's just something I can't seem to shake. Thanks.
I think they are cool, but other posts are right, once things are rolling I could care less! I think we all put way to much emphasis on the equipment and how it looks. We should forget about that and focus on the pleasure we get from sex and being with someone we love!
Just like BOOBS, large or small we love them all!
Stop worrying about large lips' they are part of the 'greater good'. Everyone has some qualities that they 'worry' about, whether physical or mental. We are ALL made slightly different...this provides a large gene pool for us to continue living and getting better.
Worry about making yourself better inside...and feeling good about yourself. This is what is important. Large lips are not like a facial irregularity...I mean how many people actually see them, other than those you are close too? And out of those you are close to, how many have commented negatively? I don't know a single male that would turn a nice set down, whether they be large or small. What really is the difference? It is part of the 'original you' and that's what makes them GREEEEAAATT! Did you know Tony the Tiger is a 'big *****'?
First of all, there should be two "flaps". And yes, men are referring to the inner lips. The outer ones are called the labia magora. The inner ones are called the labia minora. Although for ladies like us, I think it should be reversed!! Please realize you are normal.