Re: I need a guy's advice
I'm a 20 yo guy with more or less the same problem.
You said any advice appreciated. OK:
First, if you really want to help him, buy thinner condoms. I don't feel there's that much difference, but at least it will make him see you worry about him. I mean, why are you so worried about thinner condoms breaking? Do you think condoms break so easily? If you buy a decent brand and only have penetration when your vagina is well lubricated, you shouldn't worry. Plus, he's ur regular partner (lower STD risk), and anyway he can't ejaculate, so even in the unlikely case a condom broke, what are you afraid of?
(Sorry, I've been a little bit hard on you. But believe me it's not fun not coming. :-(
It appears thin latex condoms do not feel better but are more likely to break. Buy poliurethane ones, they're thinner than latex but as strong, and you feel the heat through them. Only they're just a little little little bit worse than latex ones in preventing STD transmission.)
I wouldn't worry about you being too loose. Personally, I see the fixation for tight as a mere phantasy. The last girl I've slept with is japanese, and her vagina is way too tight. I mean, even her being very wet, at first I simply couldn't penetrate her. After two hours I managed to, and it was very uncomfortable for me bcos of the tightness, so I didn't get any pleasure at all.
But if your boyfriend has had other partners before, ask him about his experiences, you never know. Honesty is the key here, but even if you were looser than other girls I can guarantee you he'd still feel great in the right positions.
About him going half way: I don't think going deep would hurt you unless there's an obvious size difference between you and him (like with this japanese girl). Do a research in the net on the vagina's "deep spot".
Anyway male sensitivity is mainly on the gland, and the vagina is tighter on its first third, so I don't think it's bcos of this anyway.
To tell the truth, I haven't understood myself why it takes me so absolutely long to have an orgasm. Maybe his penis (like mine) has a different inclination than usual when it's hard?