I need advice and opinions on how men (if you're open to this topic and if you can PLEASE give me some tips) would enjoy the girl fingering them, you know where. I know that my man is interested already. All I need to find out now, is that how men like it. It may vary, like it varies for women too but if you have any advice, anything is most welcome!
Angelwings, I've posted this new topic up in case someone sees this topic first. I figured this way we have a higher chance of getting someone's attention for help!
In Angelwing's post, Lance explained where the prostate is... the truth is, I would have never suspected it was located three inches deep. Is this going to hurt my man or is it not going to feel good at all unless I finger him at least that deep? Any tips on what kind of movement too? I really want to make my man feel good so I'd appreciate anything. Thanks for replying! <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/gabby.gif">
Thanks so much for your advice. 2 inches sounds more do-able than three... at least I know he's interested in this and that if he likes it 2 inches deep, I can always ask if he wants it deeper. What kind of movement feels best, in&out or more like hooking the finger... like when guys finger girls? <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/gabby.gif">
Hello Shy Bunny:
When massaging the prostate, wear latex gloves & use a lot of lube (k-y, astroglide). if you don't wear latex gloves, your finger nails may cut him inside-infection!
As for the finger motion, you two will have to experiment for the best result.
Practice safe sex.
I would never and never do use gloves when fingering my spouse. This would definately take away from the moment if I had to use gloves. If you have long fingernails they need to be trimmed before you decide to engage in this type of activity. Lube is great and either KY or anal lube is appropriate. The other option for lube is to use the natural wetness of your own body. My spouse enjoys gental teasing and then the final slip in of the finger when he least expects it. Try any number of things that come to mind with fingering and the tone of voice your man uses will tell which ones he really enjoys.