I am a 19 year old guy who thinks he might have a problem. I have had multiple willing partners to engage in sex with, except my penis doesn't seem to cooperate with me. It can be very difficult to get an erection, and sometimes keep one and i don't understand why and to be honest its driving me crazy. I usually masterbate once a day, supposedly thats what most guys do and i just want to know what i can do to get an erection whenever i want like everyone else seems to be able to, and to keep one. any tips or hints with be more then helpful. I feel as though i am 19 and at the supposed peak of my sexual life, i really shouldn't need pills or anything. But i'm open for suggestions.
One other thing to remember. Your two heads are very connected so nerves, fear, guilt, "how am I going to measure up"....all of those things get in the way and can effect our ability to perform. So try to stop worrying and thinking about it and just let it happen. You might try laying off the masturbation for a few days and then trying it. Also, your hand and masturbation styles are much different than a vagina and it will take some time for your penis to adjust to the difference. Nothing to worry about, something that many of us go through in the transition from "not getting any" to getting some!
Glad to be of some help, anytime you need a pick me up or a place to "vent" frustrations.....we'll see you right here on the board! Let us know if you get over the hump!
