If you just mean the point where the highest degree of sensitivity leading to orgasm is, it's generally considered to be the underside of the tip, where the shaft meets the head. Or more simply said, the underside of the head. I've heard it called the male orgasm spot. If you mean something other than this, something magical, I don't know about it.
I have always thought the male g-spot was in the anus? I have never tried it, instead just read about it. I can't quite get the nerve to stick my finger in my husbands a$$ when he ****... <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/dizzy.gif">
My husband likes when I am giving him oral sex to lick below his balls all the way down to his anus. I just keep going back and forth (sometimes all the way up his shaft and back down), when he really starts getting excited, I pretty much stick with his anus. Never saw hiw wiggle soo much during the thirteen years I've given him oral sex as when I do that! <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/love2.gif">
To those who are interested in the prostate message there is a place in Texas that makes a prostate messager that is made especially for that purpose and it works greate and you want have to worry about it going up into your bottom and causing problems. You may have to use it several times to get it to work just right for you but it is great. The website is: <A HREF="http://www.malegspot.com." TARGET=_blank>www.malegspot.com.</A>
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by ru4given55:
<B>To those who are interested in the prostate message there is a place in Texas that makes a prostate messager that is made especially for that purpose and it works greate and you want have to worry about it going up into your bottom and causing problems. You may have to use it several times to get it to work just right for you but it is great. The website is: <A HREF="http://www.malegspot.com." TARGET=_blank>www.malegspot.com.</A> </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Cool! I just had a look at the site and really like the idea of a hands-free prostate massage <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif"> . If I decide to get one I'll write about it later.
Yes, i did order one of those Aneros massagers. I have been working with it and so far, haven't been able to achieve those mind-bending orgasms that the website indicates, but have come close to it twice. Don't let the site fool you, there needs to be some practice first. You need to lube up the massager good and also your anal canal. If you relax your anus too much, you'll spit it out. The harder you contract your anus, the faster and further up the massager move and you can feel it stroking the prostate. It seems that the more I work with it, the closer I become to getting off this way.
I also tried masturbating regularly with the massager in place, which also works well. When you ejaculate, your anal muscles will contract and relax, causing the massager to stroke your prostate and therefore you let loose TONS of fluid along with the semsn.
Just bear in mind that don't expect to get it, stick it in and expect those mind bending orgasms. It will take some pracice and getting used to.
Thanks for posting your experience with the Aneros, The Jack. I know you haven't gotten one of those prostate orgasms yet, but still it sounds like its enjoyable. So the question is do you think its worth it so far? I mean, I've done anal masturbation before and have been able to greatly increase my ejaculation load just by having something up there pushing against my prostate, or just my finger massaging it while I orgasm. I guess it would be cool if it did it automatically for you. I get a lot of pulses even for about a minute after I finish ejaculating, and I guess those pulses would continue to move the Aneros and massage the prostate for me. That feature does really sound nice.
Please keep us posted with any additional results as you get more experienced using it. Thanks again for letting us know.
focus: you're welcome. even though I haven't achieved the prostate orgasm yet, I still find that it turns me on. Not to mention, the motion of doing it - regardless of whether or not you orgasm - will help strengthen and tone the PC muscles. So, positive effects are coming out of its use one way or another.
I think it is worth it. I used to think that doing anal stimulation was gross but then I learned of the prostate and all that it has to offer. Then I began manually stimulating the prostate but that got tiring after a while. So yes, I am glad I got the Aneros, it really effectively stimulates that area.
Please keep in mind that results will vary from person to person. Some folks might be able to get off on the first use, others will take some time. It's like learninghow to have sex - usually first times are not all that good but as you practice at it the better you get and the more comfortable with it you get.
Back to the massager, I think its worth it. I found out my main problem is finding a position to lie in when using it. I found that I get most stimultion from lying on my stomach with my legs spread apart a bit. It will work while lying on your back but I feel that I'm not stimulated enough in that position.
Just some additonal insight that might be useful to you. If you decide to get one - time for you to let us know how it is <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif">
Thanks again for the additional info. One other question - somewhat of a bizzare idea: With the Aneros in place, can you sit and walk around, or is there a big portion sticking out, or is it uncomfortable? I was just thinking if you had it in place, then got dressed again and just left it in there, you could be walking around and get automatic stimulation and orgasms and no one would know! That would be really cool. I'm not sure if its designed to be in place for a long time like what I'm thinking. It would be really neat if it worked that way though.
You can purchase clothing that will hold a butt plug in place. I don't know how long you could keep it there, if any of them support the Aneros, or how comfortable it would be after a lengthy period of time, though.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by focus:
<B>Thanks again for the additional info. One other question - somewhat of a bizzare idea: With the Aneros in place, can you sit and walk around, or is there a big portion sticking out, or is it uncomfortable? I was just thinking if you had it in place, then got dressed again and just left it in there, you could be walking around and get automatic stimulation and orgasms and no one would know! That would be really cool. I'm not sure if its designed to be in place for a long time like what I'm thinking. It would be really neat if it worked that way though.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Focus: yes, it is possible to standup/walk around with the Aneros inside of you. In fact, I find that I also receive quite a bit of stimulation while using it standing up but I would not do this at all. If you're standing and hit your orgasm, you can end up falling and really knocking yourself out. LOL! Sitting is totally impossible. The Aneros needs room to slide in and out. In addition, it has a curly "tail" (which helps in manually positioning it) that protrudes. Same thing goes with wearing boxers/briefs, leave alone clothes. This device is best used while you are totally naked. This way you can relax and concentrate.
Also, at this juncture I want to emphasize that I am in no way connected with the company that produces and markets the Aneros. I'm just an "average Joe" who has purchased one and is trying it out for the first time.
Hmmm - yes I saw that curly tail thing, and was hoping it wouldn't stick out too far, but I guess it does so you can't sit or wear clothing over it. BTW - is the Aneros plastic or metal? From the picture it looks like chrome metal - is it? Is it heavy?
Sorry for all these questions. I'm just really curious about it, and I know you are an "average Joe" who just purchased it - which is why I want your opinions - to see if the claims on the Aneros web site are even remotely true before buying one myself. I probably will buy one since its cheap enough and it does seem interesting. But I am going to wait until my abstinence kick is over. I've gone 1 week so far without masturbating - whoo hoo!
Focus - sorry for the delay, been quite busy as of late. The Aneros is made of plastic. The metal-like image on the site is actually a computer generated rendition. Working with it more, I have come to understand why the curly tail thing is there. When inserted, you can lie on your back and press your hips against the bed. This curly tail will press against the bed and in turn adds more pressure to the prostate and perineum area. The other night I came the closest I have been to having a prostate orgasm with this device. Getting closer!
A question for you guys who succeed at "prostate orgasms": can you achieve them without touchig the penis? Or do you come after a combination penis/prostate stimulation? And even if you COULD come without stroking your member, why WOULD you! ;>