my boyfriend and I are currently experiencing a problem, which his doctor says is common for men. When he was about 18, the thin strip/bridge of skin connecting his foreskin with the head of his penis was torn as a result of a too-eager hand job. It healed and he didn't really have any problems. Now, almost ten years later, this skin has been torn during sex. It really hurts him and won't heal. He went to his doctor, who said he basically has three options - wear a condom and lubricate during sex to prevent friction (didn't work, it still hurts him too much), be circumsized (not appealing), have part of the foreskin cut and then reattached differently (can cause the skin to then be too tight and does not guarentee anything.) There must be another solution. I would really appreciate any suggestions.