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Old 06-24-2001, 10:45 PM   #1
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How can i last longer

I have tried lots of things. Thos PC's but i dont qute understand how they work. Are there any other ways to last longer than like 15 minutes.

 
Old 06-25-2001, 07:02 AM   #2
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Re: How can i last longer

OK, this 15 minutes you're talking about, is that actual penetration time or "active sexual behavior?" If so, I think you're doing damn good. Some of us have a really difficult time keeping things going for that amount of time. Maintaining and erection and delaying orgasm takes much practice and alot of skill building. I'd suggest you keep working at it. And remember, many factors come into play here that can effect the mind of your tool...and believe me it does have a mind of it's own!

 
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Old 06-25-2001, 07:05 AM   #3
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Re: How can i last longer

Yea it is penetration time, but my g/f friend likes to do it hard and fast and then i can only last for like 5. Is that long ennough for her??
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Old 06-25-2001, 10:17 AM   #4
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Re: How can i last longer

Like I said before, 15 minutes of "working time" is damn good and you should be very glad. 5 minutes of an agressive pace seems to be great! You'll have to ask her if that's working for her. If not, try lot's of foreplay and make sure she gets what she's there for and then take care of yourself. Then, chances are you'll both get what came for! (no pun intended!)

 
Old 06-25-2001, 11:44 AM   #5
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Re: How can i last longer

Hi guy,

Have you tried using a condom (I assume you aren't)? That will reduce sensitivity a bit and delay the ejac response. Also, get used to stopping DEAD and I mean DEAD if you feel you're approaching that point of no return; work it out in advance with your GF, so she won't think YOU are dead when you stop pumping!

 
Old 06-25-2001, 11:08 PM   #6
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Re: How can i last longer

yea i use one and that helps.When should i stop and for hgow long

 
Old 06-26-2001, 10:20 AM   #7
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Re: How can i last longer

Stop when you start getting the orgasm feeling, then wait a few seconds until the feeling subsides ... then resume pumping ... If you keep doing that, you can extend lovemaking a long time

 
Old 06-28-2001, 01:44 PM   #8
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Re: How can i last longer

I noticed that when my boyfriend and i change positions often and throw in some foreplay in between, that he lasts a lot longer. When we just decide to have straight up sex... (quickie) we usually can both get off within 3-5 minutes. If we change things around, full penetration lasts about 15-20 minutes. But yes kegel excersizes do help. I wouldn't stop doing them.. after awhile you will notice the difference.

By the sounds of it though, you seem to be doing great!!

 
Old 07-09-2001, 10:46 PM   #9
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Re: How can i last longer

Ok, I've read about Kegel exercises, and I understand what they are and how to do them, but could you guys explain in a little more depth how doing kegel's helps you last longer during sex? I'm not sure I fully understand why you recommend to keep doing kegels. Thanks!

 
Old 07-09-2001, 10:51 PM   #10
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Re: How can i last longer

Sex therapists use this one: masturbate untill you feel like your going to orgasm, stop, grip the head of your penis hard, not so hard to hurt yourself, but hard.....Keep holding on untill you feel like your not going to orgasm. Keep doing this untill you can't stand it anymore....This will help endurance, and by the way, its one hell of an orgasm.....

 
Old 07-10-2001, 12:16 PM   #11
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Re: How can i last longer

The reason Kegels can help you last longer is because when you clamp down with the PC muscle it can help you from going over the edge and ejaculating

 
Old 07-10-2001, 02:38 PM   #12
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Re: How can i last longer

Squeeze the PC muscles just before you are coming and keep them squeezed .
You will not ejaculate , or only a little bit and be able to stay completely hard or at least be able to recover much faster than from a full orgasm. The timing is rather difficult and it will not always work, especially if the women is on top an keeps moving.<p>[This message has been edited by Roger100 (edited 07-10-2001).]

 
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