Hi, I've recently just lost my virginity to my girlfriend and we've been bumping like rabbits ever since then. My problem is I can't ejaculate without me doing it myself. I'm not sure if that's clear or not... I can't ejaculate while having sex with her, but I can after I stop and masterbate.
I'm uncircumcised, so I'm not sure if that plays a factor or not. I don't have any problems with my foreskin in that I can stretch it no problem, and whatever other troubles come with having a foreskin.. I have no problems there. But maybe.. am I not sensitive enough?
Anyway, I'm just wondering if any other guys out there have had the same problem when just starting out to have sex. Did it take a very long time for you to ***? Did you overcome it?
I'm thinking it's just a psychological problem.. well I'm hoping it's just a psychological problem...
Any advice? Please?
It may be something psycological but I suspect it is related to the difference between your masturbation and her vagina. You see, our penis becomes "trained" to respond to our masturbation habit...grip, speed, technique, style and all that sorta stuff. Then when we become sexually active it takes some time for it to respond to the vagina...looser fit, different everything. So, don't worry and keep working at it. This is a common problem and one that can be resolved.