If you are both virgins don't expect too much the first time. 60% to 70% of men get the most satisfaction out of satisfying their partner , so just have fun and show it.
One of the most sensual experience was by a french girl that gently ran her hands very gently up my legs and inside the boxer short just to stop before she touched the penis and she repeated this several times. This is especially exciting if it is the first time with a girl.
Most women go straight or almost straight for the penis. Did Cosmopolitan magazine say that guys only have nerves in the penis? I love being touched on my legs , buns, chest, stomach neck ...- especially before sex.
Nah cosmo didn't say that. In fact it gives you points on other spots like neck and ears and that spot between the penis and belly button. And thighs and how to use a one of those puff ball shower things. *winks*
quite interesting really. I think you just need someone who is open to touching and stuff.
But don't look at me I am a virgin still!
That's funny because I read that guys prefer the direct approach.
The guy was saying his girl would be rubbing him all up and down and he's laying there thinking, "What is she doing? Get to the point already!"
But foreplay is not necessarily a requirement. Sometimes you just want sex. <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/wink.gif"> (arg. like tonight!)
But I love foreplay. The anticipation it creates makes 'first contact' electrifying.
First, you (the girl) ahould wear something sexy. It doesn't have to be lingerie. A sexy skirt and button down blouse with bra and panties. Not a dress, you want lots of pieces.
I even have a special "tear away" dress. One of those long kind of sheer summery dresses. And he knows, if I wear it, he gets to rip it off me. I just keep sewing it back up.
Sometimes I play hard to get, and he gets to be more aggressive. The more I resist, the harder he can try. I control it though, because I know all I have to do is give in to stop it. Some days I have more fight than others.
Go out to eat and flirt big time. I mean, get in a few 'class 5' touches.
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Often I like the direct approach. If a girl grabs your penis greedily it makes me think she likes it and likes to feel it get harder. This is a turn on.
However other times,especially the first time or if I have not seen her for a long time I love being teased. I love not knowing what she will do next.
So while I like being teased don't avoid the penis and give it a lot of attention, when you get there - else I think she does not like it or penises in general. This is a big turn off.
So if you were my girlfriend and we were watching TV and I was wearing short, it would turn me on if you casually put your hands gently on my legs and slowly move them up , never knowing how far you will go. Likewise if turn me on with a wicked smile and you just pulled it out the pants and started rubbing it would also be a turn on. So I guess we guys are fairly easy going.