Re: Does having persistent homosexual thoughts make you a homosexual?
You know Steve, thoughts don't make us one thing or the other. Of course, different people will say different things about this. I personally see us as all sexual beings with different views, likes and dislikes and the ability to respond to pleasureable stimulii....from anyone. That said, being a homosexual is SO much more than thoughts or acts...it is in the desire to be in a committed relationship with someone of the same sex and to want only sexual relations with someone of the same sex. AND, there is more to it than that, but you get the picture. I suppose that many of us respond to anything sexual (arent' there penises in porn movies?) So give yourself a break and stop worrying, if you are leaning towards homosexuality is that so wrong? If that is who you are then it's OK, you have to live your life for yourself, not others or what society describes as OK. I suspect you're just fearful of those thoughts, please don't be....we all have sexual thoughts and fantasy that NOONE needs to know about!