Welcome to the boards El Barto, hope you stay for awhile!! <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif">
This is the second time in the last couple days a question like this has been asked, I invite you to read this topic also.
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But like we've said in that post, what you're going through is most likely normal. You've trained your body to know what feels good and what it takes to have an orgasm. Use this to your advantage if you want. Another thing you can do is have your girlfriend do to you what you normally would.
Relax and don't worry about what isn't happening, use it to your advantage and enjoy the fact that you are lasting longer. Forget about yourself, please her. Once she's ready to finish you, show her what you would like for her to do, show her what feels good.
Over time and if you keep doing it you'll re-train your body to recognize what else feels good and you'll be able to orgasm during sex and while masterbating. then you'll have the best of both worlds. Good luck and have fun!!
