I need some tips from guyz... I know how to give a decent blow job... but I need some tips on how to give a hand job, and if there are any little secrets to giving one that could really help satisfy my guy!?! Any comments will be greatly aprreciated.
Handjobs are somewhat underappreciated these days as in earlier times, but they are a lot of fun.
I have a few techniques that I've developed based on what I've learned from Masters and Johnson. I found The glans penis is covered with not skin, but a mucous membrane-just like the clitoris and vaginal area. Just as a dry finger can be uncomfortable to a woman, being masturbated with a dry hand can be less than pleasant to a man, especially if he's intact.
When giving a handjob, i sit astride his lap, so that his erection is right against my vulva. I take a small dollop of lube, and apply to the fingers of both hands. This decreases the friction, and the sensation that fingers are being used.
Instead of wrapping the fingers of one hand around the shaft and jerking up and down, I use both hands, and a variety of motions. I'll roll it between my palms, run my fingertips around the corona, stimulate the frenulum with my thumb in a side to side motion, and watch his reaction to see what he likes best.
I also watch for the signs of impending ejaculation, and I'll usually slow down and take him back from the brink, and then bring him up to orgasm, and then slow down again. After several times, then I let him come.
One of my lovers usually accuses me of trying to kill him after he gets his breath following a handjob, so I guess he likes it.
At age 47 I still love a good hand job! My college girlfriend, now my wife, learned the basics from me. She has branched out from there. My favorite is with her wearing a latex glove with plenty of lub. I also like a condom with plenty of lub.
When she sits behind me and reaches around I go nuts! While sitting behind me she will reach under my leg - oh my! Another great position is me sitting on the edge of a bed or chair with her on the floor.
I use to have some jeans with the bottom of the pockets cut out - no need to remove clothes! The shower is also great - if you ever do it in a hot tub, make sure to put on a condom! What a mess! It took us a week to clean up the aftermath in our own hot tub.
For some reason doing this to me is a real thrill for my wife - she gets off when I do -
Personally I don't care for hand jobs from my spouse. If a hand's gonna be strokin' it's gonna be my hand. I do prefer B/J's or sex to h/j's. The stroking from the "other hand" becomes somewhat irrating to my dick and I can't ***. It's certainly a good start but then I need a mouth or vagina to finish. Just my P/O/V.
