Guyz... when girls are giving you oral sex... and you *** the first time, if that pre or what... I just dont want to be stopping to soon and leaving my b/f hurting (blue balls)and if so how do I know if its pre or if he's *******. When do I know I should def. stop??? If you have ANY comments PLEASE let me know!!! Thanks a Lot!
When do i know to stop? I just dont want to stop at the first site of ***... b/c I know how it is to almost get there and to stop. So how do I know when to stop giving oral sex? <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/heart.gif">
Why dont you ask your bf...you feel comfortable enough to give him oral sex. Why not talk to him??? YOu can also use it to learn other things he likes.
And trust me there is a HUGE difference between pre-*** and ejaculation. Pre-*** is very small amounts such as a drop or two depending on the guy and how stimulated he is. Ejaculation will be a teaspoon full or more. Also there is a difference isn taste/texture between pre-*** and ejaculation.
Again talk to your bf. Watch your bf's reactions as you give him a hand job or oral sex. When he gets close to orgasm and ejaculating you will see different body movements.
I don't know about your guy but when I ***, It's usually pretty obvious. I start bucking, moving around, and breathing harder. Also, the most obvious sign will be that his dick will start throbbing and white liquid stuff will squirt out the end. Sorry if ya know all this already but you asked. Precum doesn't usually shoot out , it kinda oozes.
Also, when he does start coming, don't grip the thing too tight, with me it hurts to keep it bottled up and you should loosen the grip to make it more comfortable.
How'd it go?
Trust me - there's a HUGE difference between pre-*** and actually *******. You will know the difference. Pre-*** is semi-clear and "leaks" out slowly. When your b/f shoots his load, you'll get a mouth full of creamy fluid.
If he is *******, you should be able to tell by the way he tenses up before release. Additionally, his balls will typically rise up toward his penis, and his scrotum will tighten. Once he ****, you could tell by running your finger along the base of his penis behind his balls. You should be able to feel the contractions of his ejaculation as he pumps ***.
Stop when he lets you know. Different men have different preferences between enough and too much stimulation.
I remember the first time I ever gave a blow job I thought he came about 4 or 5 times.This went on for several weeks. Boy I thought I was good. Of course it was precum and I was very inexperienced. But it took me a while to know if he was ******* or not. Evidently I was not doing it so great because when he came for the first time it was like the flood gates had opened. Trust me , you will know when he ****, so be ready if you have never made him *** from a bj you are in for a surprize. Good luck. PS I married that man and am proud to say that I am very good at it now. ha ha