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mcfry · 11-30-2001, 10:32 AM

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months but have known eachother for 10 years. We recently decided to have sex but my BF is having problems maintaining his erection after the condom goes on. When the condom isn't on and we're fooling around with other stuff it's fine but as soon as the condom goes on it's bye bye. I have tried stimulating him after the condom is on but it doesn't work. It's the stangest thing and I thought maybe you guys could help. By the way he is a virgin so do you think nervousness comes in to play?

Freaky · 12-01-2001, 05:21 PM

Tell him to try masterbating with a condom on. He's probably got this impression that he's not going to be able to *** with the condom on. Tell him to beat off with the condom then you can try giving him a b/j with a condom on so he can train his mind that he can still perform with the rubber on. Don't let him talk you out of using one if this is your only means of staying baby free. I know lots of guys who refuse to use a rubber and most of their g/f's refuse entry. They'll do other things orally but no dipping in the well. Good luck.

~Freaky

Freaky · 12-01-2001, 05:22 PM

By the way, I can attest to a condom not giving the "same sensation" but safe sex is the best sex. You give a little to get a little.

~Freaky<p>[This message has been edited by Freaky (edited 12-01-2001).]

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