Re: Loss of Erection
It sounds like you are worrying about it too much. I believe that the stress of wondering if it wil happen again will make it happen again. Sweet hey? Maybe you should just do the foreplay, make your girlfriend orgasm without intercourse, and then if you are still 'rock hard' have sex. If you are going soft, have the plan to stop after foreplay then cuddle with your woman.
This is really important though....If it happens again, you have to talk with your girlfriend. Let her know that it is your problem and it has nothing to do with her. My husband got soft while trying to penetrate and it made me feel like a horrible woman. I mean what good am I if I can't make my husband hard. The times it has happened we had long foreplay and he explained to me that he was worn out. It was really important that he explain to me that it wasn't me. Just telling me "It wasn't you" does nothing. Hey your girlfriend might surprise you and suggest shortening the foreplay. She might have some awesome alternatives for you two. Keep her in the loop. She shouldn't feel like you are hiding something... Good luck.