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Old 07-02-2001, 05:05 PM   #1
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Masturbating w/ Friends

Do you think its okay to masturbate with friends. Like other guy friends while watching a porn. Or like after a party when there's like a few girls and guys but there not drun enough to have sex so they all masturbate? Give me some feed back and no there is no touching and no watching the other people masturbate!

 
Old 07-02-2001, 05:42 PM   #2
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Re: Masturbating w/ Friends

you say... cause their not drunk enough to have sex... ??? Like you have to be drunk, thats funny.

Anyways, masturabtion with friends is ok, it's not like it's a bad thing. Some people may not want to do it in front of others, but if your friends are all comfortable, I don't see the problem. I think I might laugh if i walked in to a party and everyone was masturbating, not watching each other. haha

 
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Old 07-02-2001, 06:51 PM   #3
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Re: Masturbating w/ Friends

Male mutual masturbation is pretty common in the teens. It's really not that big of a deal.

I would like to point out though that if you get a girl drunk so you can have sex with her that is rape in most states. If she is not sober she is unable to give consent. No consent equals rape. Just something you might want to think about when you are at a party getting drunk.

 
Old 07-03-2001, 05:52 PM   #4
 
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Re: Masturbating w/ Friends

I must be missing something. I can understand any combination of individuals and genders masturbating together because at some level they want to share a sexual experience. But if they're not touching each other, and they're not looking at each other, what's the point? I'm not being sarcastic, I'm really asking. I don't understand what kind of satisfaction this would provide.

 
Old 07-03-2001, 06:00 PM   #5
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Re: Masturbating w/ Friends

I guess it would be the feeling of knowing you're not alone. I'm sure someone is sneaking a peek. <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif">

Personally, I'd be a little freaked out if my hubby did it, but to each his own I guess.

Sherri<p>[This message has been edited by eweejoe (edited 07-03-2001).]

 
Old 07-04-2001, 02:19 AM   #6
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Re: Masturbating w/ Friends

I would say it's kewl if there are girls there, but GAY otherwise. (Not that there's anything wrong with being GAY.)

hey, Jude, you are good to give warning, but philosophically, if I'm drunk and the girl does me, can I get HER for rape? There is a messed up double standard going on here if a girl can call rape just because she was drunk and decided she made a bad decision in the morning. Remember you are responsible for all actions or crimes committed while drunk, so, how can you not give consent?? Still, not a good thing to mess with.

IMO, sex while drunk is not that great anyways.<p>[This message has been edited by dylon8000 (edited 07-04-2001).]

 
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Re: Masturbating w/ Friends

I guess if you really wanted to charge her with rape you could. I don't think this ever comes up though because most guys no matter what are just glad they got laid. Females on the other hand sometimes regret what they have done and feel as if they were coerced. Not really a double standard just a gender difference.

Dylon it is not GAY. I have never actually done this. But again gay is having FEELINGS for someone not sex. In this case it really isn't sex because noone is actually touching anyone else.<p>[This message has been edited by Jude29 (edited 07-04-2001).]

 
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