My girlfriend has a MAJOR foot fetish and usualy when shes giving me a BJ she starts going down for my feet, Im not worried because I have clean feet and only let her do it after I shower,I've also been told MANY times that I have very nice feet for a man, however she got angry the other day because she wanted to go at my feet before a shower, I thought she was CRAZY (no, I didnt tell her that) and she now wants me to start playing with her feet, and quite frankly I dont know if I want to, if I had known she wanted me to start sucking her toes I never would have let her do that to mine. Im VERY open minded about most things, however I cant seem to understand her attraction to this area, it feels nice when she does it to me, but not in a sexual way, Im confused! What pleasure can be derived from a persons foot? I can understand a foot massage, but this?? Am I alone on this one? can anyone tell me if theres something I dont know? Am I missing some sexual kinky significance here? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I really love my girlfriend and want to make her feel as good as she makes me feel (in AND out of the bedroom) and would hate for this to become and issue in out relationship. Do you think I should just try it anyway? She's definatly worth making a comprimise.
Well, I know several girls that have a thing for feet. Personally I think feet are generally icky. But my advice in this situation is to try it on her once or twice, and if you don't like it, just tell her so. Also, to go along with it, have her try an extra something on you that you really like. Its a two-way street here, and the most important thing to do is keep an open line of communication and an open mind. Who knows, after sucking her toes once or twice you might really like it too. If not, don't pretend you do just to make her happy, that nearly always creates resentment and that's no bueno. If you don't like it, tell her straight up. Odds are she won't be offended or take it personally, its just not your thing. I hope I haven't rambled too much. Hope this helps.
fetishes are a funny thing. They don't go away.
My suggestion is to accomodate her by letting her play with your feet, and when you have the chance, tell her you aren't into it and while you'd like to make her happy, you can't fake it. That's the clincher...nobody wants to force the 'fake'.
actually, let me retract that last piece of advice. For some reason this post popped in my head the other day and I have a new view.
You should try to accomodate her. Like I said, the fetish won't go away and by you denying her that, she will have to either satisfy her needs with someone else, or she'll have to supress them until ... whenever. that would suck. You are the one she loves, therefore she would prefer to satisfy her cravings with you. You don't have to love it, but how cool if the person who turns you on the most, accepts your fetish and allows you to be yourself without shame, and without fear of being laughed at?