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Old 10-22-2001, 12:59 PM   #1
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Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

Hey,

I was just wondering how most other guys actually ejaculate/***. Often times, if it's been a day or so, when I first masturbate, I come a lot, and it's thick, but it doesn't shoot out of my penis, there is a little force behind it, but it doesn't really shoot. However, if I masturbate another time, and especially a third time the same day, they tend to be much less thick (which makes a lot of sense), but sometimes I then DO shoot it. Sometimes a just a little distance, other times it really goes!

Which got me wondering how most guys actually ejaculate. I've seen a ton of porns, and most guys in there are definitely shooters, seeing the *** go shooting out of them a good distance, but you also seem plenty of guys who just ***, they don't spray it.

I was wondering how many guys here actually shoot, or if they kind of just gush it out.

 
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Old 10-22-2001, 03:35 PM   #2
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

When I was younger (42 now)I actually did more "shooting" than now, I'm more of a dribbler or gusher now. As for porno...dont'ever compare your ejaculations (color, amount or shooting) to what you see there.....most of it is "doctored" to make us think great things are happening and we should strive to be that way!

 
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Old 10-22-2001, 06:35 PM   #3
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

The ability to shoot is directly related to your testosterone and DHEA levels, your physical condition the length of time since your previous ejaculation and how long you masturbate before ejaculating. As men get older their testosterone levels slowly fall and as a result the production of semen decreases and muscle strength and tone decrease. This results in less force behind less ejaculate and thus the dribble effect.

Some guys start out with less testosterone or less sensitive muscles to the effects of testosterone and thus experience this effect sooner.

What can you do? Well, the first thing is to have your testostereone and DHEA levels checked. These levels should be in the middle to upper allowed region if your a young guy. If your hormone levels are low you can try taking either of these hormones although testosterone is by prescription only (because of supposed dangerous effects from its use).

 
Old 10-22-2001, 09:09 PM   #4
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

No offense orion, but I have to disagree with what you wrote. Ejaculation force depends on a lot of different variables, but none of them have anything to do with testosterone levels. I would also like to say that there is nothing wrong with dribbling, and its just as normal as shooting is. Some guys dribble, others shoot, and some like me can actually do both depending on when the last time I ejaculted, how aroused I am, what style I masturbate, and many other factors. For example, if I masturbate with lube, I usually dribble. If I masturbate without lube, I get a different sensation and I usually shoot, sometimes a foot or two. The furthest I've ever shot was about 4 feet. But I usually dribble.

Other factors for people include the strength of the orgasm reflex muscles in the prostate, groin, and seminal vesicles. Also, the size of the opening of the urethra can affect it too.

Like I said, many variables at work there. Testosterone is not one of them.

 
Old 10-22-2001, 09:45 PM   #5
 
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

Like most men, i my ejaculation varies as well. If it has been a while I tend to ejaculate a lot more sperm and semen. I also find that while I am orgasming, if i try and prolong the ejaculation, I will have a much stronger and longer ejaculation shot. My wife has given me hand jobs where the sperm has actually hit the head board as I was laying down. other times it just oozes out without any force. any other guys out there ever ejaculate on thier face or farther?

 
Old 10-22-2001, 11:47 PM   #6
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

I have to agree with most of the other posts, that for me it depends on frequency of ejactulation and my arousal state. Sometimes I shoot, sometimes I dribble. Like I said, it depends. By the way, I have shot it to my face once, my upper lip area to be exact. I see nothing wrong with that, it's your own fluids.

 
Old 10-23-2001, 10:14 AM   #7
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

Thanks for all the responses! There doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason to when I squirt it or just gush it out. I've tried just for fun to slowly masturbate, and let the feeling and *** build up, and then let it subside, and then build it back up again, doing this several times, feeling like I was going to explode, and when I did ***, it was a big gush, but it didn't shoot at all. But one other time I was having sex with an ex-girlfriend and I pulled out to *** on her chest, and I shot it over her head!

The majority of the time, I gush, and do not squirt it very far; if I get off numerous times in a day, I tend to squirt further and further, but with less ***.

 
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by focus:
<B>No offense orion, but I have to disagree with what you wrote. Ejaculation force depends on a lot of different variables, but none of them have anything to do with testosterone levels. </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

I assure you that ejaculation force absolutely depends on testostereone levels. The production of semen is directly controlled by testosterone in the blood. Low testosterone results in low semen production! Secondly, low testosterone causes muscle loss and the loss of muscle tone. These combined WILL result in lower volume and force. I have experienced these results first hand because I now take shots for low testosterone. My symptoms early on included a loss of ejaculation force, lower semen volume, poorer orgasm, but not a loss of erection ability til much later. I thought I was just "getting older" but it turned out for me that wasn't true. If I had known to listened to those early warning signs, things would have been a lot better for me.

My point is simply this. If you are experiencing a reduction in your usual ability (erection, ejaculation force/volume, libido, ability to maintain erection) and it persists through time, then you should visit a doctor and have your hormone levels checked (testostereone and thyroid at least). This is especially true if you have additional symptoms like fatigue, irritibilty, depression, weight gain, beer belly, or low libido.

 
Old 10-25-2001, 06:00 AM   #9
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

That's fine orion. But my point is low testosterone is not the ONLY reason for not squirting. It could be a reason, true. But its generally pretty rare. Considering at least 50% of all guys dribble and don't shoot, I can guarantee you all those guys don't have low testosterone levels. My point is there are over a dozen different factors that contribute to whether a guy shoots or dribbles. And its perfectly normal and fine to dribble. Just because you dribble is not an indication by itself of a medical problem or low testosterone.

 
Old 10-25-2001, 02:32 PM   #10
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

I see your point, Orion, but I think that some guys are just predisposed to dribbling/gushing. I was reassured seeing Focus say that half of men are gushers/dribblers. I know some friends who say they can control it by prolonging their masturbation and grip and stroking motion, but as I mentioned, I can't.

I have no loss of erection, I still *** quite a bit, and have been this way my entire sexual life. Sometimes I shoot it, sometimes it just oozes out. I was hoping to see if other guys were similar. Since the only other time I've seen men *** were on porns, and I know how unrealiable/unrealistic those are, I was curious about how most guys actually ejaculate. I doubted that most actually shoot a load, so much as gush a load.

 
Old 11-04-2001, 09:05 PM   #11
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

Yeah, I hit my face once. I really wasn't expecting it. Didn't care for it too much either, a long white line extending from my penis, up my chest, some on my neck, then a big gob on my check and eyebrow. Kinda funny now but it was a little gross at the time.

For the other question, it always shoots out for me. Distance, of course, depends on height and angle, not just velocity. But if I'm really tired it doesn't have very much speed. No difference for me based on how recently I last ejaculated.

Usually in porno's the guy's standing up at the end, so they get more distance that way.

 
Old 01-07-2002, 01:39 AM   #12
 
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Re: Ejaculation - squirt or mild gush

i assume that most of you can contol when you *** by how you masturbate..i can..it seems to me the longer i take to finish the harder & farther i ***. also if i have been excited for a while before i masturbate it tends to spray.i dont mind this but i like it alot better when it doesnt shoot or spray across the room..it makes clean up a breeze when it doesn't...also i have had it hit my face before.once while sitting in a chair. it surprized me. also on a regular basis it sprays onto my upper chest when im lying down...such as in bed

 
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