Re: Recently Devirginized
To answer your question, assume you cannot determine whether it was a case of the jitters or something about the act itself ... just try to relax the next time, and make sure you have BOTH taken a shower!
As to your penis girth: how big around ARE you ??
Unless you're a Hebrew National salami, your gal's vagina should accommodate it. She probably was nervous too, BTW, so nice long foreplay, and nice, easy penetration with SLOW strokes, should relax her. If she still experiences pain, she might have been incompletely "deflowered" ... a visit to the
doc (gynecologist) might be a good idea.
Good luck to you both.