Hey guy, This is very embarssing for me. hee hee. I heard something about men like haveing a finger up their butt while haveing oral sex. Are some other object. Can anyone help me? I'd to try something didn't with my husband. We both truned 40 and his sex drive has been going down hill. I still want it at less 4 times a week when he may want it maybe once a week at the most. Maybe if I try new things with him he'll want it more. I don't know, maybe he is lacking something. Can anyone help me with this too? Can he take those pills to help with your sex drive? Thanks :angel
You are describing massage of the prostate. Most guys do NOT like to have their partner try to touch the prostate. Communicate with your S/O PRIOR to doing the act. If you start fingering his butt, he may freak out. If you try to massage the prostate, use latex gloves & a lot of k-y lube; go real slow and easy.
Your S/O may have to have his testosterone level checked. Guys T- levels lower a little starting 40-50's.
Angelwings,
I'm so glad that you brought this up cuz I was just about to post this question myself. My man and I love to explore new things to keep our sex exciting and new each time. I've started to massage his butt cheeks (not in the soft sweet massaging kind of way) when he's on top and he's told me that it feels good for him. I've asked if he would want me to finger him there and he said yes. The question for the guys is, if you've tried this before with your partner, besides using plenty of lube (which I am planning to do already), how do I do this? I dont want to explore too far down the cave... if you know what I mean. But just enough to make him feel really good. Any tips are welcome! Thanks. <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif">
Yeah, you guy how far? and where? We want to please!!! hee hee OK Shy Bunny, you must not be too shy.lol. Shy, if you have anything else to try. Let me know?? <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/angel.gif">
You're looking for the prostate gland which is a small bulb-like structure about the size of a walnut. You'll need to lubricate your finger (no nails please!) and insert it about 3 inches, moving towards the front or under the penis/scrotum area. For some, this is quite the pleasure and will intensify the feelings and the orgasm, often producing more semen in the ejaculation. Some guys don't like the idea because something up the anus doesn't "seem" normal. However, I suspect that he'll get used to it really quick because it can be pleasureable. Good luck!
Thanks Lance, I'll try that. Hope he doesn't freak out.Do you like that done to you? Do you think I should tell him what I plan on doing are should I surpize him? Thanks again <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/angel.gif">
Angelwings,
In my post, I got a reply from Marco, that his G-spot is about 2 inches deep... in case you havent read that yet.
I still am wondering about what kind of movement is pleasurable for my man. Any tips, anyone? <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/gabby.gif">
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Shy Bunny:
<B>Angelwings,
In my post, I got a reply from Marco, that his G-spot is about 2 inches deep... in case you havent read that yet.
I still am wondering about what kind of movement is pleasurable for my man. Any tips, anyone? <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/gabby.gif"> </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
I personally prefer a circular motion (gently) up until just after I ***. Then it gets too intense. Second-favorite is in-and-out just over the prostate. Both lead to wild orgasms. I find I shoot farthest (due to the intensity, I think) when either is used.
