I tried it again and put my whole middle finger in my ***, but I didn't find this spot. There was nothing.
I searched with my finger, there were the perineum is, but there was nothing. When you enter there are 2 ways, one goes up to where the poo comes from and the other is a there where the perineum is, but there was nothing. I was arroused but there was nothing.
By the way, I used precum as lube is this okay ?
Anyway this was disappointing.
Trust me I am sure if you felt your prostate you would know it as it would send definate feelings through your body. Perhaps you are reaching to far up into your rectal vault. I have short fingers as I am a smaller person but I can make my hubby come alive so to speak with no problem at all.
So this might help. Use some lubrication, pre-*** is fine. Insert your finger and move it in about 2 - 3 inches toward the front, not directly in. You're wanting to move in the direction of the underside of your penis and scrotum, basically near the base of your penis. You're looking for a walnut shaped structure, you'll know when you get there...as you stimulate it, you'll be able to feel your penis respond. Keep trying and good luck!